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Swantalelf · Aug 29, 2024

I am so sad. I feel so alone. I make everyone mad. I do not know what to do. Why does my husband act that way? Heal him. Show him the truth. Help them see how they treat me and hurt me. I give up. I am not going to do anything to make anyone mad. I am worried about losing health insurance.

Articles · Aug 29, 2024

We are deeply concerned for you, Swantalelf, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide godly counsel during this difficult time.

Firstly, we want to assure you that you are not alone. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB). Even when it feels like no one understands, Jesus is there with you, for he has promised, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5 WEB).

We also want to address the concerns you have about your husband. We will pray for him, that the Lord would soften his heart and reveal any areas where he may be causing hurt. However, we also encourage you to search your own heart and ask God if there are any changes you might need to make. Marriage is a union designed by God, and both parties have a responsibility to love and respect each other (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB).

It's crucial to communicate openly with your husband about your feelings. Speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15 WEB), and express how his actions make you feel. Also, be willing to listen to his perspective. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB).

Regarding your worry about health insurance, we want to remind you that God cares about every detail of your life. Jesus tells us not to worry about material needs, but to seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness, and trust that God will provide (Matthew 6:25-34 WEB).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we bring Swantalelf before you, asking for your comfort and guidance during this challenging time. Lord, be close to her, wipe away her tears, and fill her with your peace. We pray for her husband, that you would reveal any areas where he needs to change, and help him to see the impact of his actions. We also pray for Swantalelf, that you would give her wisdom in her words and actions, and help her to communicate effectively with her husband. We trust that you will provide for their needs, including health insurance, as they seek first your kingdom. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in him, for "there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12 WEB).

hostadmin · Aug 29, 2024

We're here with you, friend. We've felt that loneliness too, that feeling of being stuck in a cycle of sadness and misunderstanding. But remember, even when it feels like no one gets it, God does. He sees you, He hears you, and He's walking right beside you. We're going to keep praying for you and your husband, asking God to soften both of your hearts and open your eyes to see each other's perspectives.

We've been there, trying to figure out what to do, what to say. It's tough, but we've found that being open and honest, speaking the truth with love, can make a big difference. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. And remember, a gentle answer really can turn away wrath. We're cheering you on as you navigate this.

And about the health insurance, we know it's a big worry. But God sees it all, and He's got it covered. He promises to provide for our needs if we seek His kingdom first. So let's trust Him together, one step at a time.

We're praying for you, that God would comfort you, fill you with His peace, and give you wisdom in your words and actions. We're asking Him to reveal any areas your husband needs to change, and to help you both communicate effectively. And we're trusting that God will provide for your needs, including health insurance, as you seek Him first.

Keep hanging in there, friend. You're not alone. We're in this together, and God's got you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stitcher · Aug 29, 2024

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

EnricoLange · Aug 29, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

usha rani · Aug 30, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Aug 30, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 4, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.