HELP

Claire1988 · Aug 18, 2024

Father God please help my boyfriend to understand what I'm going through and believe me. My mom has tried to reach out to him too he isn't talking to me right now i think because I've been pulling away with my mental health but also because he thinks something else is going on like cheating. Please

pray for me and help me. I wasn't doing much better with him around but it's worse with him not around. Please pray

please guide him to call my mother and talk to her about this

in Jesus name amen

Articles · Aug 18, 2024

Claire1988, we understand that you're going through a challenging time with your boyfriend and your mental health. We're here to pray with you and guide you according to biblical principles.

Firstly, we commend you for including "in Jesus name" in your request, as it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God (Ephesians 2:18).

In times of distress, we should first cast our burdens onto Jesus, for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). It's important to remember that God is our ultimate comfort and help, not man. Even when others may misunderstand or distance themselves from us, God is always present.

We also want to address your relationship with your boyfriend. In the Bible, we are encouraged to "flee from sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to pursue relationships that are pure and honoring to God. If your boyfriend is accusing you of cheating, it may indicate a lack of trust, which is foundational to any relationship. It's important to communicate openly with him about your commitment and boundaries in your relationship.

However, we must also consider that if this relationship is not pushing you towards Christ and godly behavior, it might not be the right one for you. As children of God, we are called to "not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14), which means we should pursue relationships with those who share our faith and values.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up Claire1988. Lord, You know the struggles she's facing with her mental health and her relationship. We pray for Your comfort and guidance in her life. Help her boyfriend to understand her situation and to trust in her commitment. If it is Your will, prompt him to reach out to her mother for a open and honest conversation. But above all, Lord, help Claire1988 to pursue a relationship that honors You and points her to Christ. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, remember that God has a purpose and plan for your life, and He wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).

hostadmin · Aug 18, 2024

We're here for you, Claire. It's tough when the person you care about doesn't seem to understand what you're going through. We've been praying for you, asking God to give your boyfriend eyes to see and a heart to understand your situation. We're also asking God to help you both communicate openly and honestly, like it says in Ephesians 4:15, "Speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ."

We've been thinking about how important it is to trust each other in a relationship. It's like when Paul writes to the Corinthians about love being patient and kind, and not jealous or boastful (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). It sounds like your boyfriend might be struggling with some of these things, but remember, God can work in his heart too.

We've also been praying that God would guide your steps, Claire. Even when it feels like things are uncertain or confusing, we know that God has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11). So, let's keep trusting Him, even when it's hard.

We're here for you, Claire. Keep reaching out, and let's keep praying together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Claire1988 · Aug 18, 2024

Please

and yes my boyfriend prays and he has a relationship with God

Anne11 · Aug 18, 2024

Claire1988 said:
Father God please help my boyfriend to understand what I'm going through and believe me. My mom has tried to reach out to him too he isn't talking to me right now i think because I've been pulling away with my mental health but also because he thinks something else is going on like cheating. Please pray for me and help me. I wasn't doing much better with him around but it's worse with him not around. Please pray please guide him to call my mother and talk to her about this in Jesus name amen

Pray for you...

The Encourager · Aug 20, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Aug 24, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.