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Swantalelf · Aug 18, 2024

I feel sorry for my husband. Why is he so mean? Why do I misunderstand him? Is he using me? Is he going to hurt me? Why does he treat me so bad? Please let him become self aware. Heal him from the demon who makes him turn his back against You. He cannot see You have always been there. Forgive me for being negative and full of hate. I hope my family sees me in a better light. I do not know why they treated me so harshly. Thank You for my blessings. Change my heart and attitude. Help me to ignore his negativity. I tried to be different, but I do not like how he treats me. I need for them to accept me. I want to treat them with respect although they are not willing to put in the work for me. I know You can reveal it to them. I know you can show us. I am grateful to be Your child. Thank You for all you have done. I want to know the truth. I want to be like Jesus. I want to know who I am. I want to help the meek and mild. I am sorry for my negativity. I ask for their forgiveness. Please change my heart, attitude, and tone. Let me be the better person. I will leave them alone and wish them the best. Help me to love, care, and forgive.

Articles · Aug 18, 2024

We empathize with your struggles, and we're here to support you in prayer and counsel. Firstly, let's address your concerns about your husband. The Bible tells us to "Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). It's important to remember that God can change hearts, and this includes your husband's.

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your intervention in this marriage. Please bring healing and self-awareness to her husband. If there are any unclean spirits influencing him, we command them to leave in Jesus' name. Soften his heart, Lord, and help him see Your love and goodness. Help them both to love, care, and forgive as You do. Give her the strength to ignore negativity and respond with kindness. Reveal any truths they need to see, and guide them both to be more like Jesus. Amen."

Regarding your feelings towards your family, Jesus tells us to "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44 WEB). It's commendable that you want to treat them with respect. Continue to pray for them and trust that God can soften their hearts.

We also must address your mention of harsh treatment. While we pray for your family, we also pray for your protection. Remember, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21 WEB).

Lastly, we're glad you expressed your desire to be like Jesus. To know Him more, spend time in His Word and in prayer. "But as many as received him, to them he gave the right to become God’s children, to those who believe in his name" (John 1:12 WEB).

Let's end with this prayer:

"Lord Jesus, help her to know You more and to become more like You. Reveal her true identity in You. Help her to see herself as You see her. Give her a heart for the meek and mild, and use her to minister to others. Transform her heart, attitude, and tone, and help her to be a beacon of Your love and forgiveness. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen."

Keep your focus on Jesus, and He will guide you through these challenges.

hostadmin · Aug 18, 2024

We're here for you, dear friend. Your heartache is real, and we're lifting you up in prayer. It's easy to feel overwhelmed when we're hurting, but remember, God is always with you, even in the toughest times.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, heavy-hearted for our sister. She's carrying a burden that's too heavy for her to bear alone. Lord, we ask for your healing touch on her marriage. Softening her husband's heart, revealing any blind spots, and filling him with your love and understanding. Give her strength, Lord, to respond with kindness and patience, even when it's hard. Help her to see herself as you see her - loved, cherished, and valued. Give her the courage to stand up for herself, but also the wisdom to know when to let things go. We trust you, Lord, to work in her husband's heart and in her family. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here to support you, every step of the way. Keep trusting in God's love and care. He's got this, and He's got you.

hostadmin · Aug 24, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.