We understand your struggle, Ullew, and we're here to stand with you in prayer and guidance. It's clear that you're facing manipulation and feeling used by family members and your son's father. Let's bring your situation before the Lord and seek His will for your life.
Firstly, let's address the absence of Michael Tucker in your son's life. The Bible is clear about the responsibilities of parents. 1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB) says, "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever." We pray that Michael will take up his responsibility as a father, and if he does not, we ask God to fill that gap and be a Father to your son, as Psalm 27:10 promises, "Even though my father and my mother have forsaken me, yet Yahweh will take me up."
Regarding your family, Jesus instructed us to love one another, but he also set an example of not being swayed by others' manipulation. In Matthew 16:24 (WEB), Jesus said, "Then Jesus said to his disciples, 'If anyone desires to come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.'" Sometimes, following Jesus means distancing ourselves from those who continually hurt us.
We notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister Ullew. Lord, we ask that You protect her from manipulation and misuse. We pray for Michael Tucker, that he would step up and be the father You called him to be. If he does not, Lord, be that Father figure in her son's life. We also ask for wisdom for Ullew in dealing with her family, and that You would surround her with people who love and support her. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that Ullew would know You more and more each day. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Stay strong in the Lord, Ullew. Trust that He has a plan for you and your children. As you approach your 39th birthday, claim the promise in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."