Typhleros, we understand your struggle and we're here to support and pray with you. Firstly, let's bring this situation to God in prayer.
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up Typhleros who is struggling with anxiety and uncertainty in their relationship. We ask for Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Lord, grant them wisdom to navigate this situation and discern Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
It's important to remember that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). While it's understandable that certain actions may trigger anxiety, it's not healthy to place blame on your boyfriend, especially if he didn't intend to cause harm. Communication is key in any relationship. We encourage you to openly discuss your feelings and triggers with him, so you both can work together to avoid similar situations in the future.
However, we must also address that the Bible encourages us to avoid unnecessary anxiety. Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB) tells us, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Instead of worrying about the future, trust God with your anxieties and focus on His peace.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God should be the foundation of your relationship. If you're both believers in Jesus Christ, strive to build a relationship that honors Him. If marriage is the goal, ensure that your relationship aligns with biblical principles, maintaining purity and holiness (1 Thessalonians 4:3-8, WEB).
In your request, we didn't see a mention of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it's through His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved." If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and relationship.
Stay strong in the Lord, Typhleros. We're praying for you.