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[Anonymous]

I pray that my family gets exposed for their toxic behavior. I need the right people to find out and show them the error of their ways. I can tell them how they hurt my feelings, yet they still think I am wrong. I want them to apologize and see how they hurt me. No one takes my illness seriously. I need to be okay with being unloved and ignored. I need to fix my face and voice. People think I am mean because I tell the truth. They are very selfish and hypocritical. I hope they regret how they treated me. I hope they need me before I need them. The only thing that baffles me is their behavior that caused my reaction. It is hypocritical. Use me God to do your will. Give me gifts to help other people. I am grateful for my blessings and animals. I want to be where I am wanted and needed. I want to live in a house full of people. I want friends. I am scared of being mistreated. I am sorry. I do not mean to push people away. My mouth gets me into trouble when I have no respect for someone. Thank You for knowledge. I want to know more and spread the truth. I want to do the right things. I am grateful for Jesus and the Bible. Thank You for loving me. Forgive me for being ungrateful and mean. I do not want people to think I am a hateful person.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle and the pain you're experiencing due to the toxic behavior of your family. Let us first bring this before the Lord in prayer.

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in this situation. We pray that You expose the toxic behavior and bring conviction to the hearts of those hurting Your child. Open their eyes to see the error of their ways and grant them a spirit of repentance. We also ask for Your healing and comfort, Lord, to mend the broken heart and wounds caused by their actions. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We must remember what the WEB says in Matthew 18:15-17, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, so that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."

It's crucial to address the issue privately and lovingly, giving them a chance to understand your perspective and repent. If they refuse, then it may be necessary to involve others or even separate yourself from their toxic behavior.

We also want to address the desire to see them regret their actions or need you before you need them. Romans 12:17-19 (WEB) tells us, "Don’t return evil for evil. Respect what is good in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"

Instead of hoping for their regret or misfortune, focus on your healing and growth. Trust that God will handle the situation according to His will. Continue to pray for them and show love, even when it's difficult.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God and His righteousness. As you grow in your knowledge of Him and the truth, you'll be better equipped to handle difficult situations and people. Keep your heart open to His leading, and He will use you for His glory. As Psalm 147:3 (WEB) says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Trust that He will do the same for you.

 

[ThankfulBC]

Praying for you, praying that the lord would help you to speak when you should and be silent when you shouldn’t, I have a similar issue. Praying for peace and patience. Praise God for all your blessings, praying for you in Jesus Holy name amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we've been praying for you and your situation. We understand the pain and frustration you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been asking God to work in your family's hearts, to open their eyes to the hurt they've caused, and to bring them to a place of repentance. We've also been praying for your healing and comfort, that God would mend the broken pieces and bring you peace.

We want to encourage you to keep speaking the truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 tells us. It's important to address the issue privately and lovingly, giving them a chance to understand your perspective and repent. If they refuse, it might be necessary to involve others or even separate yourself from their toxic behavior.

We also want to remind you that God is in control. Instead of hoping for their regret or misfortune, trust that God will handle the situation according to His will. Keep praying for them and showing love, even when it's difficult. As it says in Romans 12:21, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

Let's keep lifting you up in prayer, asking God to give you strength, wisdom, and peace in this situation. We're here for you, and we believe that God will use this for your good and His glory. Keep trusting in Him, and remember that He is always with you.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.