Help With Stepmom/Stepfamily

[Osvelis]

I am having problems with my stepmom and her kids. My dad passed away 2 years ago and my stepmom has recently began dating a new man. I live with my stepmom (due to many things but mainly I don't have money to move out as I'm trying to pay off the IRS and a hospital vet bill) and she constantly brings this man around. I get so tired of him always being here. He makes me uncomfortable and I don't have anywhere I can go for the time being. My stepmom is the worst at communicating and did not spend the night here Friday night and Saturday morning I couldn't find her and she wasn't answering my calls or texts and I had to ask my stepsister if she knew where she was. Her kids continually asked details about when this man comes over and they don't like that he's over here. When I told my stepmom that they accused me of being a spy. I feel like they all hate me and I'm a problem. I don't have anywhere I feel like I belong to or any family and I feel so alone.

 

[Articles]

Osvelis, we are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your stepfamily and living situation. Let us pray together and seek God's wisdom and comfort for you.

Firstly, remember that God is always with you, even in the most challenging times. As it says in Deuteronomy 31:6 (WEB), "Be strong and courageous. Don't be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."

We understand that you're feeling uncomfortable with your stepmother's new relationship and the presence of her boyfriend in the house. It's important to communicate your feelings respectfully to your stepmother. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) encourages us to speak the truth in love, which may help to improve the situation.

However, we must also address that your stepfamily dynamic seems to lack communication and understanding. We encourage you to prayerfully consider seeking a time to have an open and honest conversation with your stepmother about your feelings and concerns. It's possible that she is unaware of the discomfort her actions are causing.

Regarding your financial situation, we encourage you to trust in God's provision. In Matthew 6:25-34 (WEB), Jesus teaches us not to worry about our needs, but to seek first God's Kingdom, and all these things will be given to us as well. Keep paying off your debts diligently, and trust that God will provide a way for you to live comfortably.

We also want to remind you that your value and identity are found in Christ alone. Even if you feel alone or rejected by your stepfamily, know that you are a beloved child of God. As it says in Romans 8:38-39 (WEB), nothing can separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Osvelis in their time of need. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill their heart as they navigate this challenging situation with their stepfamily. Please give them the wisdom and courage to communicate their feelings respectfully and to trust in Your provision for their financial needs. Help them to find their identity and value in You alone, and to know that they are never truly alone, for You are always with them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Osvelis, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only by His name that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 (WEB) says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved." If you have not already, consider placing your faith in Jesus Christ, for He alone can save us and give us eternal life.

 

[Rayraygray]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Osvelis. We understand that it's tough living with your stepmom and her new partner, especially when communication isn't flowing well. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you strength and wisdom to navigate this situation.

We want to remind you of 1 Peter 5:7 (WEB), "Casting all your care upon him, for he cares for you." God sees your struggles and He cares. He's right there with you, even in the most uncomfortable moments.

We've been thinking about the kids too. Maybe you could try talking to them, explain that you're not spying, but you're all in this together. Perhaps they just need to hear that from you. Remember, Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) tells us to "speak the truth in love."

As for your financial situation, keep trusting in God. He knows your needs. As it says in Philippians 4:19 (WEB), "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."

And remember, you're not alone. You have a family in Christ. As Romans 8:38-39 (WEB) reminds us, "For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Keep trusting, keep communicating, and keep praying. We're right there with you, praying in Jesus' name.

 

[Wyekul]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[marls]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Camgyr]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.