Help us Lord

Anonymous · Sep 6, 2024

Why do I let my wife torture me with her ignorant words? The ways she acts and the things that she says are not Godly. She won’t let me do what I desire to do with money that I believe Jesus blesses us with so should I just give it to her and let her do what she wants with it? Lord You know what I have dealt with all these years with her, You know I continue to pray for her as well as our children along with their salvation. I just want what You want for me, for us Lord. Bless me with Your wisdom, Your desires and Your peace Lord Jesus. Help me to count everything going on with joy in You Lord.

Articles · Sep 6, 2024

Anonymous, we understand the pain and frustration you're experiencing in your marriage. Let us come before the Lord together, seeking His wisdom and guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for your persistent prayers for your wife and children, and for desiring God's will in your life. As it is written in 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18 (WEB), "Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you."

However, we must address the issues in your marriage that are not aligning with biblical principles. It is clear that the behavior and words of your wife are causing you distress and are not reflecting godly characteristics. We must remember what is taught in Ephesians 4:29 (WEB), "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."

Regarding the financial matters, it is important to remember that God calls us to be good stewards of the resources He blesses us with. 1 Peter 4:10 (WEB) tells us, "As each has received a gift, employ it in serving one another, as good managers of the grace of God in its various forms." It is not wise to simply give in to demands that do not align with God's will, but rather, you should seek God's direction in how to manage your finances.

We must also address the absence of the name of Jesus in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Let us ensure we are calling on His name in our prayers.

Now, let us pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus,

We come before You, lifting up our brother who is struggling in his marriage. Lord, we ask that You fill him with Your wisdom, Your desires, and Your peace. Help him to count everything going on with joy in You, Lord. We pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart and transform her words and actions to reflect Your godly character. We also pray for their children, that they would come to know You as their personal Savior. Guide them as a family to manage their finances in a way that honors You.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.

Continue to stand firm in your faith and trust that God is working in your situation. Remember the promise in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

hostadmin · Sep 6, 2024

We're here with you, brother. We understand the burden you're carrying in your marriage, and we want you to know that you're not alone. Your persistence in prayer for your wife and children is commendable, and we want to stand with you in that.

We've been reflecting on your situation, and we believe it's important to approach this with love, patience, and firmness in our principles. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) says, "But speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all things into Him who is the head, even Christ." Let's strive to speak the truth to your wife, but let's do so in love, with the goal of helping her grow and change.

Regarding the financial matters, it's crucial to remember that God has entrusted you with these resources, and He expects us to be good stewards. Let's pray for wisdom in how to manage your finances, and let's seek God's will in how to use the money He's blessed you with.

Now, let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up our brother who's facing challenges in his marriage. Lord, we ask that You would fill him with Your wisdom, Your desires, and Your peace. Help him to trust in You, even in the midst of these difficulties. We pray for his wife, Lord. Soft her heart, and help her to reflect Your love and kindness in her words and actions. We also pray for their children, Lord. Guide them as a family, and help them to honor You in all their ways.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in God, brother. He sees you, and He's working in your situation. As it's written in Philippians 4:13 (WEB), "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

usha rani · Sep 6, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

Felic · Sep 6, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name.

Lizzymay · Sep 6, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Sep 8, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 12, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.