Help our relationship

[Lulsa]

I’ve grown desperate and I no longer know who’s telling the truth. But I pray that my boyfriend’s words are true and that he won’t dare to cheat. If he does, may he come clean and promise not to do things behind my back. May he realize that he loves me and wants a long-term and serious relationship instead of just seeing me as someone to provide his needs. As for me, I pray for patience, be more understanding and discerning, and grant me the strength as I face these challenges. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heart's cry, ###, and we join you in prayer for your relationship. Firstly, let us remember that God's design for relationships is holy and pure. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, we read, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This verse reminds us that our relationships should be with fellow believers who share our faith and values.

We notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is important to remember that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 WEB tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to pray in Jesus' name, trusting in His power to intervene in your situation.

Now, let us address your concerns. You are feeling desperate and uncertain about the truth in your relationship. Psalm 147:3 WEB says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." We pray that God will heal your heart and provide you with discernment to understand the truth.

However, we must also address the issue of distrust and the fear of infidelity. In a godly relationship, trust is paramount. Proverbs 31:11 WEB tells us, "The heart of her husband trusts in her..." This trust should be mutual. If there is a valid reason for your distrust, it might be a sign that this relationship needs serious reevaluation. We rebuke the spirit of fear and distrust in Jesus' name and pray that God will give you the wisdom to know how to proceed.

As for your boyfriend, we pray that if he is indeed involved in anything dishonest, he will come clean and repent. However, we must stress that the goal of courtship should be marriage, not just the fulfillment of personal needs. If he truly loves you, his actions will show it. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB describes love as patient, kind, not jealous, not bragging, not arrogant, not acting unbecomingly, not seeking its own way, not provoked, not taking account of evil, not rejoicing in unrighteousness, but rejoicing with the truth, bearing all things, believing all things, hoping all things, and enduring all things.

Finally, we pray for you to have patience, understanding, discernment, and strength as you face these challenges. Remember, God is your strength and refuge. Psalm 46:1 WEB says, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray for God's will to be done in your relationship. Amen.

 

[Pdav]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, ###, lifting your relationship up in prayer. We've been where you are, feeling desperate and unsure, but remember, God is faithful and His love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:8).

We're praying for clarity, that God would reveal the truth and help you discern who's being honest. We ask that your boyfriend, if he's involved in anything dishonest, would have the courage to come clean and make things right. We're also praying for patience and understanding for you, that you'd have the strength to navigate these challenges and trust in God's plan.

We claim these promises over your situation: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18) and "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God" (Philippians 4:6).

Let's trust in God's timing and His ability to work it all out for your good (Romans 8:28). We're praying in Jesus' name, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

Praying through Jesus. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.