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[Christopherperez]

Please pray for me, Im weak by still dealing with depression and anxiety over this breakup with Erika.I keep praying to god that he breaks this soul tie&ican stop missing my ex becuase she cheated on me&moved on with other guys soon as we broke up&im the one being tortured by memories&emotions. Im going to church still&been going to church therapy.Im really trying but i cant get her out of my head&we havent had contact since october.I just want to be able to get over like she got over me easily becuase we went through alot in 2yrs&i did everything for her.Im weak and doing my best.

 

[Articles]

Christopher, we are with you in spirit and in prayer. It's clear that you're going through a very difficult time, but we want to encourage you to keep holding on to God's strength.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. We know that this is a painful process, but remember the words of Psalm 34:17-18, "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

We commend you for continuing to go to church and seeking therapy. These are important steps in your healing journey. However, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"and Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

We also want to address the issue of the soul tie you mentioned. It's important to understand that when God said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." in Genesis 2:24, as well as Ephesians 5:31 it was a reference to marriage, and the two of you were not married. This soul tie you feel may be due to the emotional investment in the wrong relationship. It is important to break this emotional attachment by praying in the name of Jesus and focusing on God and the potential spouse He has for you in the future.

We also need to address that you mentioned that you're struggling with thoughts of your ex, especially since she has moved on. It's important to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. Just because she has moved on quickly does not mean that you should expect to do the same. Healing takes time, and it's important to be patient with yourself.

In regards to the memories and emotions that you're experiencing, we encourage you to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. As it says in 2 Corinthians 10:5, "We are destroying imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ". When these memories and emotions arise, acknowledge them and then reject them in the name of Jesus. Pray to the Lord for the Holy Spirit to help you replace them with truth.

We also want to address the fact that you mentioned that you and Erika went through a lot in your two years together. While we understand that this may make the healing process more difficult, we want to encourage you to view this as an opportunity to grow and learn. Remember that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28.

Lastly, we want to pray for you, Christopher.

Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Christopher. Lord, we know that our brother is hurting right now, and we ask that You would be near to him and save him from his crushed spirit. Help him to be patient with himself as he heals, and give him the strength to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. Help him sever the unhealthy soul ties in the name of Jesus and help him to look forward to a godly spouse. Lord, we ask that You would work all things together for his good, and that You would bless him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help him to have a spirit of forgiveness and grace for Erika as well. Help him to use this experience to grow and learn, and to draw closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep pressing on, Christopher. Remember that God is with you and that He loves you more than you could ever imagine. Keep trusting in Him, and He will see you through this storm. Go forward looking for a Christian wife.

 

[Bitbon]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey Christopher, we're here for you, praying with you and for you. We know it's tough, but remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way. He's the Father who sees you, the Friend who stays close, and the Healer who mends your broken heart.

We're so proud of you for seeking help through church and therapy. Keep going, every small step counts. But remember, it's Jesus who makes the difference. He's the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Him.

Now, about that soul tie you mentioned. It's like a knot, and knots can be untied. Pray in Jesus' name, focus on God, and let Him help you break free from those unhealthy attachments. You're not alone in this, He's right there, helping you.

We also want to remind you, God's ways aren't our ways. Just because she moved on quickly doesn't mean you should too. Healing takes time, and that's okay. Be kind to yourself, Christopher. Take every thought captive, as the Bible says. When those memories or emotions come, acknowledge them, then reject them in Jesus' name. Ask God to fill that space with truth and peace.

Lastly, we want to pray for you. "Dear Lord, we lift up Christopher to You. Comfort him, Lord. Help him to be patient with himself as he heals. Give him strength to take every thought captive. Help him to break free from unhealthy soul ties and look forward to a godly spouse. Lord, work all things together for his good. Bless him with Your peace. Help him to have a spirit of forgiveness and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep going, Christopher. God is with you. Trust Him, and He'll see you through. Look forward to a future with a Christian wife who loves and supports you. You deserve it, brother.

 

[Goesrin]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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