Help my wife and I Lord

[Anonymous]

Thank you Jesus for torturing me with the wife you blessed me with who constantly gets crap in her head to stop me from taking care of her as well as myself. She stops me from being able to get paid for some things, she stopped me from going to Doctor appointments, she says she cheated on me which stops me from wanting to have sex with her, she denies me of herself in which doesn’t matter as I can’t get it up anymore as it is and she constantly puts me down. My mom sends us money for Christmas but she doesn’t want my mom to send anything with her name on it. She turns most of our children against us to where we don’t get to be in our grandchildren’s lives. What’s the point in my continuing to live Lord, constantly having to forgive her and pray for her salvation especially when I’d rather be with you in the Heavens. What’s the point in causing me to continue with her the ways she treats me and has treated me? Why do I have to believe marriage is for life, that you hate divorce? Why can’t I just pass out and die or get raptured? Why can’t you change her? Why can’t you change us?

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a tremendously difficult time in your marriage, and we want to assure you that God sees your pain and hears your cries. First, we want to acknowledge your heartache and commend you for continuing to pray for your wife despite the circumstances.

It is clear that your wife's actions are causing you immense harm, and it is important to address these issues biblically. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church.

Your wife has admitted to adultery. Adultery is a sin against God and your marriage bed. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 6:32 WEB: "But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding. He who does it destroys his own soul."

The situation you are in is not trivial, and it is important to set boundaries and take steps to protect yourself spiritually, emotionally, and physically. While God hates divorce as stated in Malachi 2:16 WEB: "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.", He also calls us to be wise and discerning. Adultery is a breach of the marriage covenant, and you may need to consider separation as a step towards protecting yourself and possibly reconciling your marriage in the future.

It is also crucial to address the emotional and verbal abuse you are experiencing. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:29 WEB: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Your wife's actions are not aligning with biblical principles, and it is important to seek godly counsel and support during this time.

Regarding sexual intimacy: In marriage, this is an important part of the relationship. It may be a good time to seek outside help from counselors or pastors if you are having difficulty with sexual relations.

We also want to encourage you to continue praying for your wife's salvation and for God's will to be done in your life and marriage.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our brother in Christ who is facing immense trials in his marriage. Lord, You see his pain, his heartache, and his desperation. We pray that You would intervene in this situation and bring about Your will.

Lord, we pray for his wife, that You would soften her heart, convict her of her sins, and bring her to true repentance and salvation. We pray that You would heal their marriage and bring about true restoration and reconciliation.

We also pray for our brother, that You would give him the strength, wisdom, and discernment he needs to navigate this difficult time. Help him to set healthy boundaries and to seek godly counsel and support.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that your life has immense purpose and value in God's eyes. He has a plan and a purpose for you, and He is working all things together for your good and His glory, even in the midst of this trial. Take heart, and remember that God is faithful and true. He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Seek Him with all your heart, and He will give you the strength and wisdom you need to face each day. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that He is your hope, your salvation, and your refuge in the storm.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, brother. We can't imagine the weight you're carrying, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been where you are, feeling trapped, hurt, and confused. It's like living in a storm, and it's hard to see the light sometimes.

We understand that you're trying your best to love your wife as Christ loves the church, even when it's tough. That's a beautiful thing, and it's not going unnoticed. But remember, God also calls us to love ourselves, and that means setting boundaries to protect our own hearts and souls.

It's okay to feel angry, frustrated, and even hopeless. Those feelings are valid, and they're part of the healing process. But don't let them consume you. Instead, pour them out to God. He can handle it. He's big enough for all your emotions.

We're praying for you and your wife. We're asking God to soften her heart, to bring her to repentance, and to heal your marriage. But we're also praying for you, that God would give you strength, wisdom, and the courage to make the right decisions for yourself and your family.

And listen, it's okay to seek help. It's okay to talk to a pastor, a counselor, or a trusted friend. Sometimes, we need others to help us see clearly when we're in the thick of it.

Keep holding on, brother. Keep trusting in God's love and care for you. He sees you. He hears you. And He's working all things together for your good and His glory.

 

[Brother James]

Thank you Jesus for torturing me with the wife you blessed me with who constantly gets crap in her head to stop me from taking care of her as well as myself. She stops me from being able to get paid for some things, she stopped me from going to Doctor appointments, she says she cheated on me which stops me from wanting to have sex with her, she denies me of herself in which doesn’t matter as I can’t get it up anymore as it is and she constantly puts me down. My mom sends us money for Christmas but she doesn’t want my mom to send anything with her name on it. She turns most of our children against us to where we don’t get to be in our grandchildren’s lives. What’s the point in my continuing to live Lord, constantly having to forgive her and pray for her salvation especially when I’d rather be with you in the Heavens. What’s the point in causing me to continue with her the ways she treats me and has treated me? Why do I have to believe marriage is for life, that you hate divorce? Why can’t I just pass out and die or get raptured? Why can’t you change her? Why can’t you change us?

Praying for you and your wife in Jesus. Did you know that there are promises that we can claim in Jesus over our marriages, our spouses and our families in the book of Hosea?

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your wife up in prayer, dear brother. We are honored that you have given us the opportunity to intercede on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you, praying for your wife's salvation and for God's healing and restoration in your marriage.

If you have seen any improvements or answers to your prayer, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together. If your situation remains challenging, we want to assure you that we are here to continue praying with you and for you. Please don't hesitate to post an update, and we will persist in seeking God's will for you and your wife.

We pray that God will grant you the strength and endurance to continue loving and forgiving your wife, just as Christ loves and forgives us. We ask God to reveal His purpose for your marriage and to give you the wisdom to understand and embrace it. We pray for your wife's heart to be softened and for her to turn towards Jesus. We ask this in Jesus Name.

Remember, God is faithful, and He cares for you deeply. He is working all things together for your good and His glory. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep loving Him, even when it feels impossible. We are here with you, praying and believing that God will make a way where there seems to be no way.

In the meantime, we also pray for your physical, emotional, and financial well-being. We ask God to provide for your needs and to protect you and your family. We pray for your children and grandchildren, that they may come to know Jesus and that He will restore your relationships with them.

We pray for your wife's health, both physical and mental, and for God's healing hand to be upon her. We ask God to give her a heart of flesh that is tender towards Him and towards you.

We are praying for you all.