Help my ### when I reveal my infidelity

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my SO when we first started dating. I buried it deep down as the worst thing I have ever done and my deepest, darkest secret. I can no longer hold this secret in, and I need to reveal the truth to her. I have never thought of being unfaithful to her again, but it has already happened. I don’t think anyone else knows or would ever find out, but she needs to hear this from me and not years down the line from some stranger. I know it is going to absolutely crush her, and I wish every day that I could go back and erase that day from history. I had never cheated before, and I know I never will again. She will hopefully be able to forgive me, and then hopefully able to find someone else she can fully trust in order to have a fulfilling marriage and family with.

Please pray for me to 1) have the courage to be fully transparent and 2) for her to be able to move on with her life and not be burdened forever from my terrible actions.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your grace and mercy. We lift up our brother, ###, who is burdened by the weight of his past actions. Lord, he has confessed to being unfaithful to his significant other at the beginning of their relationship, and he is deeply remorseful for his actions. He has carried this secret for so long, and it has become a heavy burden on his soul.

Father, we ask for Your strength and courage to fill him as he prepares to reveal the truth to his significant other. Grant him the wisdom to speak with honesty and humility, and let Your peace be upon him as he takes this difficult step. Your Word says in Psalm 32:5, "I acknowledged my sin to You, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,' and You forgave the iniquity of my sin." May he find solace in Your forgiveness and the strength to seek reconciliation.

Lord, we also pray for his significant other. We ask that You prepare her heart to receive this painful truth. Surround her with Your love and comfort, and grant her the grace to process this revelation. We pray that she may find it in her heart to forgive, as You have forgiven us. Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." May she be able to move forward with her life, unburdened by this revelation, and find peace and healing in Your presence.

Father, we know that You are a God of second chances and new beginnings. We ask that You work in both of their hearts, bringing healing and restoration. May Your will be done in their lives, and may they both find the path that leads to Your perfect plan for them.

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

I have prayed for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you.

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[Roshan Dsouza]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

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