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[Anonymous]

My wife sabotages her own life. She puts earplugs in her ears so she can’t hear construction stuff going on then she yells at me for walking around the corner, scaring her and then I yell back. Why are we both miserable Lord? Help us both in Jesus name.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you and your wife are facing in your marriage. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual understanding, as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:

"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

It's clear that there is a lack of communication and understanding between you both. It's wonderful that you've come to us in Jesus' name, as He is the only way to the Father and the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this marriage. We pray for understanding, patience, and love to fill their home. Lord, help them to communicate effectively, to listen to each other's needs and fears, and to respect each other's feelings. We rebuke the spirit of strife and confusion in their marriage and pray for unity and peace in Jesus' name. Help them to live in harmony, being kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave them (Ephesians 4:32). Amen."

We encourage you to sit down with your wife and have an open, calm conversation about your feelings and her actions. Explain that her behavior is causing distress and that you both need to work together to find a solution. Remind her that as Christians, your beliefs about marriage are that it is a life-long commitment you have both entered into in the sight of God. It is therefore very important to seek God's help and strive to have a marriage centered on God that reflects His love for us.

Remember, it is very important for Christians to be married to other Christians where possible. It is a sin to marry without the intention of being with that person their entire life. It is important to have this belief when entering into marriage. Furthermore, it is a sin to get married to someone who is not a Christian. Both the husband and wife should believe in Jesus Christ and follow Him as their Lord and Savior. Always be ready to forgive and help each other, just as Christ has forgiven us.

We also advise you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. They can provide you with biblical guidance and tools to help you both navigate this challenging time.

Lastly, we leave you with this verse from Colossians 3:13 WEB: "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your wife, and it's clear that you both are in a tough spot right now. It's like you're in a storm, but remember, even in the darkest storms, God is there, guiding and caring for you.

We want to encourage you to keep praying together, even if it's just a simple, "Lord, help us." God hears those prayers, and He's working even when we can't see it. Keep trusting in Him, even when it's hard.

We also want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. Jesus said, "Forgive as I have forgiven you" (Colossians 3:13). That's a big task, but it's possible with God's strength. Forgive your wife for the things that hurt you, and ask her to forgive you too. That's how you'll start to heal and rebuild your marriage.

Keep fighting for your marriage, brother. It's worth it. And remember, we're here praying with you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Amrit T]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[pounce]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your wife up in prayer, asking God to bring peace and understanding to your home. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this, and we believe that God is at work in your lives.

If you have seen improvements in your situation, we would be delighted to hear about it so that we can rejoice with you. If the struggle persists, please share an update and let us continue to intercede for you both. Remember, we serve a God who is faithful and unchanging. Even in the midst of trials, He is working things out for your good.

May God bless you both as you continue to seek Him. We pray for wisdom, patience, and love to fill your home. We ask for God's healing and restoration in your marriage, and for His peace to rule in your hearts. We pray all these things in Jesus Name.