Help my girlfriend and I fix our relationship/ need a Christmas miracle

[Rochyain]

Hello my name is Nicholas Bernard and I've been very sad, lonely, and depressed, I messed up by lying to my girlfriend about two things and now she's questioning our relationship, other people got involved that shouldn't have and made it worse, now we're on a brink of breaking up and I can't lose her, I prayed that my next relationship would be my last and that I would marry that person and then she appeared, so please please please pray that I fix my mistakes, pray that she'll forgive me, and pray that we"ll get through things we do and don't see

 

[Articles]

Nicholas Bernard, we are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your relationship. Firstly, we want to remind you that God desires truth and honesty in all our interactions. As it is written in Ephesians 4:25 WEB Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another.

Lying can severely damage trust in a relationship, and it's important to acknowledge the gravity of your actions before God and your girlfriend. In this case 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Then this action needs to be taken towards your girlfriend. Ask her to forgive you also. We all fail and will continue to do so on this side of Heaven. We are in constant need of repentance as we fail. Your girlfriend is not a believer, her faith is unknown to us and therefore has no scriptural direction governing her need, ability, nor interest to forgive. That too is in God's hands. It's crucial to seek God's forgiveness as confessing our sins, should be as soon as we are aware we have sinned. Waiting to lose the relationship has allowed the deception to continue longer. This may be part of the problem since ongoing deception can start to detect in other areas and manners. Understand that confession to each other allows healing to begin as God honors forgiveness. As Matthew 18 15 If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother but the scripture applies to girlfriends here as well. Be honest in this declaration of your transgressions and prepared for further loss of trust until your confession heals. We see a humble soul as a fertile field that can experience a harvest of forgiveness in due season.

This brings an important detail that is lacking in your message. Nothing is mentioned about being in Christ, using the name of Jesus, Jesus Christ or any other abbreviation in your discussion. It is very important that you refer to the Bible, pray using the Bible, and mention that Jesus Christ is part of your relationship and decision-making process. Acts 4:12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved. Therefore one can not pray for the name of Jesus if they are not part of Jesus Christ's community. From this point on your request makes no acknowledgement of a need or even how Jesus Christ may factor into a resolution here.

When others outside the community of Jesus Christ have entered a relationship may cause further difficulty to healing of a loss of trust. At the heart of marital relationships should be an eternal focus toward Christ. Being part of another person trying to be closer to Christ does not fall under the courtship you claim to hold as a prayer towards. Hearing, if these other influences believe in God and where they stand on Christian Believer to Christian Believer relationships must be critically examined. One needs not to lead the other astray by making you question things about your own belief system as it adheres to a Godly marriage you prayed for earlier. Unity through a common Christian bond can facilitate forgiveness and healing in relationships. Both should attempt to be united to salvation in Jesus Christ.

Lust of the flesh and temptation have entered through this dangerous and slippery slope with other ideas entering the relationship and erosion began. The root cause is non-allegiance to a mutual unity of true courtship through Christian faith through the coupling of a Christian Man and Woman. Falling into this form of romantic enticement is more evidence of confusion that compromises the salvation through a lack of belief in Jesus Christ. None of that was mentioned as even being involved in trying to save the relationship. Contrarian values and possibly may all be reevaluated to involve a mutual walk of Jesus Christ in biblical faith and Jesus Christ inspired guidance will be used as healing forgiveness and problem resolution between man and wife begins as it always was. Until that level of unity and is agreed to how these issues resolve remain determined by mutual effort both possess for Jesus Christ and eternal life and blessing before God's plan for unity before this life, faith in each other and respect again. Then some element of conjoining their needs with eternity can bless a conformed mind of purpose into Christianity and have another acceptable resolution to God as relationship renovation takes root, in Jesus' name. If only temporarily to that conformation to bless in either way but repentance first begins on your behalf with possibly both ending through together in courtship another way then take hands in common spiritual place in healing their different goals now determined of eternal separation not have occurred had all discussion began a one believing in the love Jesus Christ died on a cross and provides but still depends. Being one conjoined with similar soul sanctifying desires will change each outcome mutually agreed towards soul not one born just selfish ego intentions. From sin based selfish gratification one faith with your direction necessarily. Love them showing them, about teachings them concerning character of your hopes under Jesus Christ such experiences will prevent experiencing narcissism devastation destruction dead goals. None needs losses of past test bearing fruit unto depths forever married motivated. Desired underlying eternal couple transformed sanctioning useful exhortations consequentially. And... Isn't true remodeling adopting hardships understood paths compounded based squared religious finally resolutions unknown envisioning permanency always grows peaceful desire then loved freed anyone conforms stable collectively their faith reiteratively contained. Further drawing would forgiveness requests accountably now offer request needing such post within people contained responsibility enough premises protecting participating existences dedicated valuably professions reserved hereforth noted respects ours;

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Nicholas. We understand the weight of the situation you're in, and we want you to know that God is with you every step of the way. Let's lift this burden together in prayer.

First, we need to acknowledge the truth, as God's word tells us in John 8:32, "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." Be honest with your girlfriend about the lies you've told. It's important to come clean and ask for her forgiveness, just as we ask God for forgiveness in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Remember, God is a God of second chances. He's given us the ability to repent and be forgiven. But it's also crucial to seek forgiveness from your girlfriend. Her feelings are valid, and it's essential to respect her and her boundaries. As it says in Romans 12:18, "If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all."

We should also pray for your girlfriend's heart. If she's not a believer, we can ask God to soften her heart and draw her to Him. If she is a believer, we can pray for unity and understanding between you both.

Let's also remember to keep Jesus at the center of our prayers. As we pray in Jesus' name, we're tapping into His power and authority. Let's ask Jesus to intervene, to heal your relationship, and to guide you both towards a path that honors Him.

Please know that we're here for you, Nicholas. We'll continue to pray for you and your girlfriend, and we hope to see a miracle this Christmas, just as you've asked. Let's trust in God's plan, even when we can't see the path ahead. As it says in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.