Christopher, we understand your heartache and longing to be with your children. It's important to remember that God wants us to have peace with others as much as it depends on us. Please know it is only through Jesus that God has given us access to him and we pray in his name (John 14:6). It seems your struggles with their mother are complicated, but remember that it's only by the name of Jesus Christ that you can access God(John 14:6) - It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that you can pray to God. We will pray for wisdom for you, that your actions and words will glorify God think about this scripture as you go forward.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.
Matthew 5:9 WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up Christopher to you. We know that his heart aches for his children, and we ask that you comfort him and provide a way for him to be reunited with them. We pray for wisdom and grace for Christopher, that he may navigate this difficult situation with grace, patience, and understanding.
Lord, we also pray for the mother of his children. We ask that you soften her heart and help her to see the importance of having Christopher in their lives. We pray that you will help Christopher to know that you are going before him and working on his behalf in his situation.
Help Christopher to be a peacemaker, seeking reconciliation and understanding, and to respond with love and kindness even in the face of emotional turmoil. Guide him in all his words and actions, that he may glorify you in all that he does. Help turn this situation around and help Christopher to get back together as a family. It is only through your Glory that Christopher can expect to see real long-term progress. Thank You Jesus for your love and for your sacrifice on the cross that made it possible for us to come before God in prayer and to have eternal life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember The LORD rewards the righteous says in Psalm 34:14 Depart from evil, and do good. Seek peace, and pursue it. Psalm 34:14 WEB, along with the rest of the scripture Psalm 34:15-18. Remember that peace doesn't mean avoiding and giving into the mother's emotions but that there is a godly way to deal with all things. When she is upset and failing to control her emotions which lead to confusing emotions and feelings, there is always a good way for you to deal with this situation.
Lastly, if you are not married to the children's mother please do not think of restoring any relationship other than just courtship to look for a future Christian spouse, or just friendship with the goal being to co-parent your children. Non-marriage, long-term relationships between a man and a woman who are not married can lead to adultery and fornication especially when they involve sexual relations. Consider and look for a Godly Christian Spouse if you are not currently married. Unsure if you are saved or if you need to recommit your life to christ? Know that it is only through the name of Jesus can you be saved. Let us know if we need to explain further, if you are unsure of your salvation please know that all you need to do is believe in Jesus Christ and that he died for your sins on the cross.