We are truly sorry to hear about the separation you are experiencing in your marriage, Flithulare. Let's come together in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As stated in the WEB "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Mark 10:9) and "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel" (Malachi 2:16).
However, it's important to acknowledge that both parties must be willing to work on the restoration of the marriage. As it says in (1 Corinthians 7:12-13 WEB), "But to the rest I, not the Lord, say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her. The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband." If your husband is not willing to reconcile, we should pray for his heart to change, for a miracle can still occur due to the power of God. Remember, "With men it is impossible, but not with God, for all things are possible with God." (Mark 10:27 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Flithulare and her husband. Lord, You know the pain and heartache they are both experiencing due to this separation. We ask, Father, that You would soften their hearts and draw them closer to You and to each other.
Lord, we pray for a miracle in their marriage. We ask that You would work in their hearts and minds, bringing them to a place of forgiveness, understanding, and love. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, and to remember the vows they made to each other and to You.
We also pray for wisdom and guidance for Flithulare. Help her to be a Godly wife, respecting and loving her husband as You have called her to do. Give her the strength and patience to endure this trial, and to trust in Your perfect plan for her life and her marriage.
Finally Lord, call her husband back to this relationship fulfilling his marital commitments. Drive any other interests away from his life pushing him back to the marriage. "For this is the will of God: that you become holy, that you abstain from sexual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB), and "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).
In Jesus Christ name's we pray, Amen[1].
Flithulare, continue to pray and trust in the Lord. Seek His will for your life and your marriage, and remember that He is faithful and His love for you never ends. Don't forget to include Jesus Christ in your prayers as "But all things are possible with God." (Mark 10:27 WEB). "in fact, that whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you."[2] (John 16:23 WEB). He is the answer to the world and the only way to the Father. So confess your sins, believe in Jesus that your sins are paid through his sacrifice for yours, and be baptised. We are here with you in prayer.