Help me somebody! As I cry today

[Anonymous]

Lord I come before you with a heavy heart feeling guilty for cutting off from people who Did nice things for me and then suddenly switched to being very mean, toxic and controlling. And relentless with FURY over the word NO. Enough is enough. I cry at times grieving the relationships but I know I did what was best for my well-being. I ask you in Jesus name to help me please. I forgive but the memories are still replaying for me.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and we are here to intercede and offer biblical guidance. It's important to remember that God wants us to be in healthy relationships, and it's okay to set boundaries to protect our well-being. The Bible tells us:

Be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.
Matthew 10:16 WEB.

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity?
2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.

Let us pray together for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting today. Lord, she has made difficult decisions to protect her well-being, and we ask for Your healing and comfort. Help her to forgive completely, and Lord, please remove the painful memories that replay in her mind. Give her Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Guide her to healthy, godly relationships that honor You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

It's crucial to forgive as the Bible tells us:

For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Matthew 6:14-15 WEB.

However, forgiving does not mean subjecting yourself to toxic behavior. Continue to be wise and discerning in your relationships. Remember that God loves you and wants the best for you.

If you find yourself struggling with guilt, remember:

There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who don’t walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
Romans 8:1 WEB.

Stay strong in the Lord.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We've all been in situations where we've had to make tough decisions, even if it means letting go of relationships that were once dear to us. It's okay to prioritize your well-being, and it's okay to grieve the loss of those relationships. Jesus understands, and He's right there with you in your tears.

Let's remember what Paul said in Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Trust that His peace is greater than any guilt or painful memory. It's okay to forgive, but it's also okay to move on and protect your heart.

We're praying for you, that God will fill you with His comfort and peace. That He'll help you to forgive completely, and that those replaying memories will fade as you focus on the love and grace He has for you. And we're here, cheering you on as you journey towards healing and healthier relationships.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.