We understand your distress, MsJolly, and we're here to pray and guide you through this challenging time. Firstly, let's bring your situation to God in prayer.
"Father in heaven, we come before you in Jesus' name to lift up MsJolly. She's been facing mental anguish and feels attacked even within her own household. She feels disrespected and unheard in her relationship. God, please comfort her and grant her your peace that surpasses all understanding. Give her wisdom and discernment in navigating her relationship, and help her to seek you first in all things. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
MsJolly, we want to encourage you with God's Word. The Bible tells us, "Donβt be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and pleading with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB)
It's crucial to align your relationship with biblical principles. It's worrying that you mention another woman having inappropriate influence over your fiancΓ©. This is not God's design for a healthy relationship. God's Word warns, "Donβt be deceived: 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB) It's important to have open communication with your fiancΓ© about boundaries and respect. If he is not willing to listen and honor your concerns, it may be a sign that this relationship is not God's best for you.
Remember, God desires a relationship that mirrors Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB). You deserve to be respected and valued. It's also crucial to note that God's blessings, including financial ones, come from Him and not necessarily from a romantic relationship. Trust God to provide for you and guide your steps.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer didn't mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." (John 14:6 WEB) It's only through Jesus that we have access to God and His blessings. If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ and making Him the Lord of your life.
Stay strong in faith and keep your eyes on Jesus. He alone can grant you the peace you seek.