Help Me Pray for My Marriage.

[Iorrilthan]

Hello,

I have been with my husband for 24 years and married for 22 years. Out of those years of marriage, 20 of those years we were happily married. Two years ago, his mother moved in with us and since that time our marriage has been suffering. I have been sick with Rheumatoid Arthtis, since the birth of our son, 20 years ago. For many years, my husband didn't have any problem with the fact that I am sick and chronically feel pain. This limits what I can do and limits my mobility and energy levels. Even since his mother has been with us, she has criticized me terribly to him and brainwashed him. He has verbally berrated me in front of his mother over and over again and 99 percent of the time she is in the wrong and not understanding my suffering of Rheumatoid Arthritis. He continues to do this to me when she visits her daughter. My husband also calls me the B word, stupid, and useless, in front of our son. My husband also screams how unhappy he is with our marriage in front of our son. My husband threatens that he will leave me at least once a week. I don't know what to do, I don't have a job and have been looking despite my limited physical abilities and my lack of skills. Please pray that things change for the better for me and my son. I would have said for our family, but my husband told me that he doesn't consider me family and that his mother is his true family because she is his blood and I am nothing to him. Both of my parents are dead, my son doesn't seem to respect me because his father verbally and emotionally mistreats me. So, whenever my son is doing or saying something wrong and I try to correct him, he repeats the insults that his father says about me, to me.

I don't know what to do. I wish I could quickly learn a skill to have a decent job so that if my husband leaves I can support myself. I am all alone and sick with no one. I am so lonely and my heart feels heavy.

Please pray for me. Thank you, and Thank the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage and the pain you are enduring. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.

Firstly, we want to address the mistreatment you are experiencing. The Bible teaches us to love one another as Christ loved us (John 13:34, WEB). The way your husband is treating you is not in line with this teaching. In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are commanded to love their wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her. We rebuke this behavior and pray that God will convict your husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance.

Let's also address the influence of your mother-in-law. It is important to remember that a man should leave his father and his mother, and should be joined to his wife; and they should become one flesh (Genesis 2:24, WEB). We pray that God will give your husband the wisdom to understand this and to prioritize his marriage above his earthly family.

We also want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith. Remember that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1, WEB). He is with you in this difficult time and will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our sister Iorrilthan. Lord, we ask that you intervene in her marriage. Convict her husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance. Help him to see the pain he is causing and to turn away from his cruel words and actions. Lord, we also ask that you help Iorrilthan's mother-in-law to understand the boundaries of marriage and to respect her daughter-in-law.

Father, we ask that you provide for Iorrilthan's needs. Open up opportunities for her to learn new skills and find a decent job. Comfort her in her loneliness and heal her from her sickness. Surround her with people who will love and support her.

Lord Jesus, we thank you for your love and sacrifice. It is in your precious name that we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to leave you with this encouragement from the scripture: Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time; casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:6-7, WEB). Keep trusting in God, He is faithful and will see you through this difficult time.

Please keep us updated on your situation so we can continue to pray and support you.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Iorrilthan,

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to reach out again. We're so sorry that you're going through this. It's clear that you're in a tough spot, and we want you to know that you're not alone.

Firstly, we want to reassure you that God sees you and He cares. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is with you in your pain, and He wants to heal you.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep holding onto hope. It might feel like things won't change, but remember, with God, nothing is impossible (Matthew 19:26). We're believing with you that your husband will have a change of heart and that your marriage will be restored.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God. In times like these, it's easy to feel distant from Him, but He's always there, ready to listen and comfort you. Spend time in His presence, read His word, and let His love fill you up.

Lastly, we want to remind you that you're a child of God, and He loves you just as you are. You're not alone, and you're not a burden. You're a blessing, and God has a purpose for your life. Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you through this storm.

Keep fighting, dear sister. We're praying for you, and we're here for you.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[Anonymous]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage and the pain you are enduring. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your situation.

Firstly, we want to address the mistreatment you are experiencing. The Bible teaches us to love one another as Christ loved us (John 13:34, WEB). The way your husband is treating you is not in line with this teaching. In Ephesians 5:25, husbands are commanded to love their wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her. We rebuke this behavior and pray that God will convict your husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance.

Let's also address the influence of your mother-in-law. It is important to remember that a man should leave his father and his mother, and should be joined to his wife; and they should become one flesh (Genesis 2:24, WEB). We pray that God will give your husband the wisdom to understand this and to prioritize his marriage above his earthly family.

We also want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith. Remember that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1, WEB). He is with you in this difficult time and will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our sister Iorrilthan. Lord, we ask that you intervene in her marriage. Convict her husband's heart and bring him to a place of repentance. Help him to see the pain he is causing and to turn away from his cruel words and actions. Lord, we also ask that you help Iorrilthan's mother-in-law to understand the boundaries of marriage and to respect her daughter-in-law.

Father, we ask that you provide for Iorrilthan's needs. Open up opportunities for her to learn new skills and find a decent job. Comfort her in her loneliness and heal her from her sickness. Surround her with people who will love and support her.

Lord Jesus, we thank you for your love and sacrifice. It is in your precious name that we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to leave you with this encouragement from the scripture: Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time; casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:6-7, WEB). Keep trusting in God, He is faithful and will see you through this difficult time.

Please keep us updated on your situation so we can continue to pray and support you.

Thank you, and Praise and Thanks to God, our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

 

[Dwerwarren]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Iorrilthan]

Dear Iorrilthan,

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to reach out again. We're so sorry that you're going through this. It's clear that you're in a tough spot, and we want you to know that you're not alone.

Firstly, we want to reassure you that God sees you and He cares. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is with you in your pain, and He wants to heal you.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep holding onto hope. It might feel like things won't change, but remember, with God, nothing is impossible (Matthew 19:26). We're believing with you that your husband will have a change of heart and that your marriage will be restored.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God. In times like these, it's easy to feel distant from Him, but He's always there, ready to listen and comfort you. Spend time in His presence, read His word, and let His love fill you up.

Lastly, we want to remind you that you're a child of God, and He loves you just as you are. You're not alone, and you're not a burden. You're a blessing, and God has a purpose for your life. Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you through this storm.

Keep fighting, dear sister. We're praying for you, and we're here for you.

Thank you. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this woman who is facing immense challenges in her marriage, health, and family life. Lord, You see her heart, her pain, and her loneliness. We ask that You bring her comfort, strength, and peace in this difficult season. Your Word in Psalm 34:18 assures us, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” Draw near to her, Father, and wrap her in Your love.

Father, we ask for healing in her body as she battles rheumatoid arthritis. Touch her with Your healing power, Lord, and bring relief to her pain and suffering. We stand on the promise of Jeremiah 30:17: “For I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds.” Restore her strength, energy, and mobility, so she may find renewed vitality and hope.

Lord, we lift up her marriage to You. We ask that You soften her husband’s heart and open his eyes to the pain he has caused. Your Word in Ephesians 4:31-32 reminds us to “let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” Transform his heart, Lord, and bring conviction and a desire for reconciliation and respect within their marriage.

We also pray for her son, Lord. Protect his heart and mind from the impact of the words and actions he has witnessed. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” Guide her son to learn respect, love, and kindness, despite the circumstances. Help him to see the strength and love in his mother and to treat her with honor.

Father, we ask that You provide her with opportunities to gain skills and find employment that will enable her to support herself if necessary. Philippians 4:19 declares, “And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Provide her with resources, guidance, and connections to build a secure future.

Finally, Lord, we pray for her loneliness and heavy heart. Remind her that she is never truly alone, for You are with her. Isaiah 41:10 encourages us, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Uphold her, Father, and fill her heart with Your peace and love.

Thank You, Lord, for hearing this prayer and for being her refuge and strength. May she feel Your presence, experience Your guidance, and walk in the hope of Your promises.

In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Iorrilthan]

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this woman who is facing immense challenges in her marriage, health, and family life. Lord, You see her heart, her pain, and her loneliness. We ask that You bring her comfort, strength, and peace in this difficult season. Your Word in Psalm 34:18 assures us, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” Draw near to her, Father, and wrap her in Your love.

Father, we ask for healing in her body as she battles rheumatoid arthritis. Touch her with Your healing power, Lord, and bring relief to her pain and suffering. We stand on the promise of Jeremiah 30:17: “For I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds.” Restore her strength, energy, and mobility, so she may find renewed vitality and hope.

Lord, we lift up her marriage to You. We ask that You soften her husband’s heart and open his eyes to the pain he has caused. Your Word in Ephesians 4:31-32 reminds us to “let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” Transform his heart, Lord, and bring conviction and a desire for reconciliation and respect within their marriage.

We also pray for her son, Lord. Protect his heart and mind from the impact of the words and actions he has witnessed. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” Guide her son to learn respect, love, and kindness, despite the circumstances. Help him to see the strength and love in his mother and to treat her with honor.

Father, we ask that You provide her with opportunities to gain skills and find employment that will enable her to support herself if necessary. Philippians 4:19 declares, “And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Provide her with resources, guidance, and connections to build a secure future.

Finally, Lord, we pray for her loneliness and heavy heart. Remind her that she is never truly alone, for You are with her. Isaiah 41:10 encourages us, “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Uphold her, Father, and fill her heart with Your peace and love.

Thank You, Lord, for hearing this prayer and for being her refuge and strength. May she feel Your presence, experience Your guidance, and walk in the hope of Your promises.

In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

Thanks. Amen.