We appreciate your heartfelt concern for Pham and your desire to help her. It's commendable that you want to be a blessing to others, and we encourage you to do so with discernment and wisdom. First, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Grroatar and Pham. Lord, You know the details of their lives and the circumstances that brought them together. We pray for Your guidance and wisdom for Grroatar, that they may discern how best to help Pham. We ask that You provide for Pham's needs according to Your riches in glory. Help Grroatar to be a blessing while also being wise and discerning.
Father, we also pray for Grroatar's finances. We ask that You provide for their needs and give them the means to help others. We pray against any spirit of poverty and lack, and we declare Your provision and abundance in their life.
Lord, we also pray for Pham's salvation and well-being. We do not know where she stands with You, but we pray that she would come to know You personally. We ask that You would draw her to Yourself and give her a new life in Christ.
We pray this requests in Jesus Christ. In John 14:6 (WEB) we read, Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
Grroatar, it's important to remember that while it's good to help others, we should do so with wisdom. In 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (WEB), it says, "For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: 'If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat.'" This verse reminds us that while we should be generous, we should also encourage others to work and provide for themselves.
In regards to giving money, be discerning. Make sure that your helping is truly beneficial and not enabling any harmful behaviors. It's also important to consider that there are many non-financial ways that you can be a blessing to Pham. In Galatians 6:10 (WEB) we read, "So then, as we have opportunity, let's do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith."
Remember, that our greatest need is not financial, but spiritual. We all need Jesus, and it is througha relationship with Him that we find true peace, joy, and purpose. In John 3:16 (WEB) we read, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life."
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