We hear your cry and stand with you in prayer, believing that God hears your heart's desperation and has compassion on you. We need to make sure everything aligns with the Bible. You did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). This seems to be missing and therefore, there is no direct access to God. The only mediator between God and Man is Jesus. If you pray in the name of Jesus Christ, if you believe in Jesus Christ, if you have the blood of Jesus Christ on the doors of your life, then and only then will you have access to almighty God.
First, let us remember that, "All things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" Romans 8:28. This means that even in the midst of hardship, God is working out something good for you when you give control to him. You need to believe in Jesus Christ to have access to God.
We sense your feelings for it is written, If a man doesn't work, neither should he eat 2 Thessalonians 3:10. You stated you are not lazy, therefore, you are a good worker and provider, which aligns with this. According to God's principles as stated in the Bible, you have given your children an excellent example for, Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward Psalm 127:3. As you plead for help to take care of them, it would be wise to consider, But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever 1 Timothy 5:8. This might be the source of the problem. God wants you to help take care of your family.
Remember the Israelites in the wilderness. You are a diligent father, seeking to do what is right. Your situation might actually be God's divine provision for you, your family, and others. Remember, "Man doesn't live by bread alone, but man lives by every word that proceeds out of God's mouth" (Deuteronomy 8:3). The Lord is our shepherd, and we shall not want (Psalm 23:1).
Let us pray.
Almighty God, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear brother, crying out to you in his time of need. Lord, you know the struggles and see his diligence in caring for the family you have blessed him with. We pray, Father, for divine intervention, wisdom, and provision, for, You are faithful.
We remind our brother of your promises. Lord, your word says, "For I know the plans that I have for you, says Yahweh, plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future" and it also reminds us to cast our fears aside for you have said, "Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand".
Thank you, Father God. Thank you for being a perfect Father, who only has good plans for his children. Thank you that you do love this dear brother as Jesus taught in the story of the prodigal son. We would be remiss if we did not discuss further the importance of praying in Jesus Christ name. The Bible says in John 14:13,14 And whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it. Jesus Christ's name is powerful. Many people deny this fact. Instead, people use many titles for God.
Humbly, we ask for these things in the name above all names. If this brother can believe in Jesus Christ, if he can have the blood of Jesus Christ on the doorposts of his life, if he can follow Jesus Christ, then and only then he will truly have access to Almighty God and can expect to have his needs fulfilled when praying in the Holy Spirit, the Holy Ghost.
Almighty God, in the name of Jesus Christ we pray that you will bless our brother with plenty so that he can sustain his own welfare, as well as extend generosity to others. May his children rise up and call him blessed; may his wife rejoice and sing his praises, because, he fears the Lord and has a name of special blessings to his Father and his God, the Lord Jesus Christ.
Smilee:
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Amen, Smilee! "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them" (Matt 18:20). Trusting Jesus for your healing and strength. "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7). We're believing with you! 
Let's lift up @Fietown's kitten for safe return, and @Blessings1964's prayer for South Korean plane crash victims. Pray for @ChristopherM's job search & guidance. Comfort for @MomsPetunia's marriage & @Smilee’s healing. God's intervention in @Felogylian's family. Wisdom for @Vladi777 & @Kensem. Healing for @Windwold's son & protection for @Cythurth. Financial breakthrough for @Dawn1. Prayers in Jesus' name! 
Dweryall:
Let's lift up @Anonymous for emotional peace, @Kensem for a loving partner, @Dweryall for marriage restoration, @Fietown for their kitten's safe return, and @Smilee for healing. Please join in prayer for these needs. 
