Tyrhand, we understand that you're facing a challenging situation, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we want to address the issue of your girlfriend and the actions of your former friend. It's important to remember that God's word tells us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 6:18-19 WEB:
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own.
The actions described are not appropriate for anyone in a committed relationship, and it's commendable that you took a stand and asked your girlfriend to block him. However, it's clear that there are still some lingering feelings of hurt and mistrust, which is understandable.
We also want to remind you as a believer in Jesus Christ, not just as a boyfriend, about the importance of forgiveness. Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB:
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
It's crucial to forgive both your girlfriend and your former friend for their roles in this situation. This doesn't mean that what happened was acceptable, but rather that you're choosing to let go of the bitterness and hurt.
Regarding your girlfriend, it's important to have open and honest communication with her about your feelings. Share with her that seeing her interact with this individual can still be painful for you. It's also a good opportunity or discuss boundaries in your relationship, making sure that both of you are comfortable and feel respected.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Tyrhand and his situation. Lord, we pray for Your healing touch on his heart. Help him to forgive completely and to release any bitterness or hurt he may still be holding onto. Give him the strength to face these challenging days ahead, and guide him in his conversations with his girlfriend.
Lord, we also pray for Tyrhand's girlfriend. Guide her heart and actions, and help her to understand the boundaries that need to be in place for the health of their relationship. We pray that their relationship will be one that honors You and aligns with Your principles which are clearly outlined in scripture.
In all of this we pray in Jesus name, Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and relationship. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path Psalm 32:8 WEB:
I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you.