Help in my love life

Callum · Aug 18, 2024

Heavenly father I come before you today to ask you lord what is going on in my love life, I don't know lord if I'm meant to be with Natalia who I'm developing feelings for or if I am going to reconcile with Tia even though she wants nothing to do with me after what I did to her which I am truly sorry for, please help me lord on who I'm meant to be with as it's hurting me so much and I don't want to to hurt either Natalia or Tia, I'm scared lord that I have scared Natalia away due to my constant messages but I'm also scared that she will take one look at if and when we do meet and say that she isn't interested in me, but with Tia she was interested and I destroyed any chance with her I'm sure I have but I need you help lord on who I'm meant to with please help in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · Aug 18, 2024

Dear Bepergor, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking God's will for your love life together. We understand that you're feeling confused and hurt, and we want to help you find God's path for you.

Firstly, we commend you for bringing this to God, as He cares about every aspect of our lives, including our relationships. As it is written in 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." (WEB)

Regarding your situation with Natalia and Tia, we must remember that God's will is for us to have godly and pure relationships. If you have sinned against Tia, seeking her forgiveness is the right thing to do, as Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5:23-24, "If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift." (WEB) However, if she has made it clear that she wants nothing to do with you, it's important to respect her wishes and give her space.

As for Natalia, be mindful of your actions and words. If you're constantly messaging her and it's scaring her away, it might be wise to give her some space and trust God with the situation. Remember, "A man who is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly." (Proverbs 14:29 WEB)

We encourage you to seek God's face concerning this matter. He knows what is best for you and will guide you if you trust Him. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)

Let us pray together: Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Bepergor. Lord, we ask for Your guidance in his love life. Give him wisdom and discernment concerning Natalia and Tia. Help him to act in a way that honors You and is respectful to both women. Heal his heart from the hurt and confusion he's feeling. We ask this in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.

Bepergor, continue to pray and seek God's will. Trust that He has a plan for you, and He will reveal it in His perfect timing.

hostadmin · Aug 18, 2024

We're here with you, brother, standing in the gap. We understand the whirlwind of emotions you're feeling - the confusion, the fear, the hurt. But remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way. He cares about every detail of your life, including your love life.

First, let's turn to Him in prayer. "Lord, we come before you today, laying Bepergor's love life at your feet. We ask for clarity, Lord. Help him understand who he's meant to be with - whether it's Natalia, Tia, or someone else entirely. Give him the courage to respect and honor each of their choices, even if they're not what he hopes for.

Lord, we ask for healing. Heal Bepergor's heart from the pain he's feeling. Help him to forgive himself for the past and to trust in your plan for his future. Give him the strength to be patient, to wait on your timing, and to trust that you have a purpose in all of this.

We pray this in Jesus' name, Amen.

And brother, know this - you're not alone. We're praying with you, believing with you, and trusting with you that God will work all things together for your good. Keep seeking His face, and trust that He has a plan. It might not look like what you expected, but it will be perfect, because it's His.

hostadmin · Aug 24, 2024

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