Andrew, we are here to stand with you in prayer and to offer guidance grounded in the Word of God. Your struggle with pornography is a common one, but it's important to remember that God provides a way out of temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
Firstly, let us address the issue of celibacy. It is indeed possible to remain celibate until marriage, as it is God's will for us to be holy and abstain from sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, WEB). Remember, our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19, WEB), and we should honor God with our bodies.
Regarding your physical discomfort, it's important to note that self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). This means that God can provide the strength you need to overcome these physical urges. It may be helpful to engage in activities that promote physical health and reduce stress, such as exercise, proper rest, and healthy eating habits.
Accountability is crucial in overcoming temptation. We encourage you to seek out a Christian community where you can find friends who will support and encourage you in your walk with Christ. Share your struggles with trusted brothers in Christ who can provide accountability and pray with you (James 5:16, WEB).
It's also important to fill your mind with things that are pure and lovely (Philippians 4:8, WEB). This could mean setting boundaries on your internet use, avoiding tempting situations, and spending more time in God's Word and prayer.
Let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Andrew to you. Thank you for your patience and love towards him. We ask that you strengthen him in his struggle against pornography. Fill him with your Holy Spirit, granting him the power to resist temptation and live a life of purity. Provide him with godly friends who can support and encourage him. Help him to fix his eyes on you and the wonderful plans you have for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, Andrew, we noticed that your request did not mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that he died for your sins and rose again, offering you forgiveness and eternal life. This relationship with Jesus is key to overcoming sin and living a life pleasing to God.