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Bully Be Gone--- Anxiety and panic attacks and fear are intense psychological challenges especially at 10 years old. These aren't evil spirits attacking him they are attacking the bully. And it's really toxic behavior not a curse of evil. This is where things are going to change. Let's pray for strength and the power of the mind. Bullies are living in fear. They don't want anyone to know it so they seek the person who they most want to be like. I don't condone violence or anything like that. But this insecurity is not a good thing. God has already directed you to seek advice or a technique that is very effective. To be clear on this matter a bully is a coward that is also in deep emotional pain. Jesus encountered a bully named Satan. He tried everything to get Jesus to take the bait. But Jesus wouldn't be fooled that easy. How does one stand up to a bully in their lives? It requires empathy. Yes it's true. Empathy is the first thing to embrace. Explain how empathy works. It's a good word to learn. Now it won't make sense to him but eventually this will be helpful to prevent trouble and avoid problems later on. It's complex but it will make sense as he grows up. Fear of the bully is very real but he may not understand what the bully fears. Standing up to the bully is playing by his rules so that's not a good idea. The bully usually doesn't feel he fits in with the group. He relies on shame and intimidation to survive. The goal is to shift the bullies perspective. They may not be aware of why they are aggressive. So you must communicate empathy. You can't shame the shamer. Now we adults can understand this but a 10 year old won't. The bully bullies because there is an imbalance of power. The bully is attempting to maintain a social status. So provoking someone they target someone they think they can dominate to standout. Never get triggered by the bully by engaging with them in a yelling match. To get them to back off you've got to get them talking about something they like talking about. This is empathy. Sharing insights together. Conversation to get the bully talking about themselves. This is also verbal judo. Get them out of the fight frame of mind. You can't win. Ask them things they like to talk about. Get them talking about their interests. This can be very successful. Now this will help in the future. But it's important to learn how to develop friendships. Let's pray that God takes care of the situation in the mean time. Pray for protection from harm and injury. Praying for courage and that the bully moves on or looses interest. God watch over your family and protect them. AmenHello. My child is 10 years old and battling anxiety, social anxiety and fear to go to any school. He was bullied a month ago and hasn’t been the same. Please help me cast out all evil spirits attacking him.