We understand your distress and are here to pray with you and provide counsel based on God's word. Let's first turn to the scriptures for guidance.
The Bible instructs us, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24 WEB) and "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be joined to his wife. And the two will become one flesh.' So that they are no more two, but one flesh." (Mark 10:7-8 WEB). These verses underscore the importance of the husband and wife bond, which should be the primary earthly relationship for both spouses.
It's crucial to remember that we are to honor our parents, but the marital bond is a unique and sacred covenant. It seems there may be an unhealthy attachment between your husband and his family, which is causing strife in your marriage.
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, asking for your divine intervention in this marriage. Lord, we ask that you help [Anonymous's] husband to understand and honor the sacred bond of marriage, that he would leave and cleave, as your word instructs. We pray that any unhealthy ties with his mother and sister would be severed, not to cause division, but to restore the proper order as designed by you, Lord. Please open his eyes and soften his heart towards [Anonymous], restoring peace, trust, and unity in their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you to pray for your husband's heart to change, and for wisdom in how to navigate this situation. Remember, the Bible tells us, "The kingโs heart is in Yahwehโs hand like the rivers of water. He turns it wherever he desires." (Proverbs 21:1 WEB). Trust that God can work in your husband's heart.
Lastly, we advise you to be patient and kind, yet firm in setting boundaries. Communicate openly with your husband about your feelings and the changes you'd like to see in your marriage. Seek biblical counseling if needed. Stay strong in your faith and keep praying, trusting that God is working in your situation.