We are truly heartbroken to hear of the pain and anguish felt in this situation. First, let us address the feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness. It is a lie from the enemy that anyone is beyond the love and redemption of God. The Bible tells us that "God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB). This includes everyone, regardless of past mistakes or current circumstances.
It is disheartening to hear that there is no mention of Jesus Christ in this request. First, let us clarify that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in Romans 5:2, "...and have access by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we boast in hope of the glory of God." As it is written in the book of Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" This is why we must emphasize the importance of Jesus Christ in every prayer and conversation.
Next, let us address the feelings of rejection and the fear that a good man of God could never love because of past mistakes. The Bible tells us that "there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1 WEB). God does not hold past sins against those who have repented and turned to Him.
God does not hold past sins against those who have repented and turned to Him. Furthermore, it is not true that no good man of God could ever love because of past mistakes. God can redeem any situation and bring beauty from ashes.
There is a false belief in the fact that no good man of God would want someone who is not a virgin or has a child. This is not true. A true man of God will love and accept according to God's will, regardless of past mistakes. The Bible tells us that "love covers a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8 WEB).
It is also important to address the concern that the only option for is to remain in an abusive home. This is not God's will. God wants all to be safe and free from abuse. It is important to seek help and support from local resources and authorities to escape any abusive situation.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is hurting and feeling unworthy of Your love. Father, we know that Your love is unconditional and that You forgive all sins when we repent and turn to You. We pray that You would heal the brokenness and pain, and that You would reveal Your love in a tangible way. We also pray against the lies of the enemy, the lies that say no good man of God could ever love because of past mistakes. Father, we know that You can redeem any situation and bring beauty from ashes. We pray for guidance and wisdom, and for You to provide a way out of any abusive situation. We pray for a godly spouse, who will love and accept unconditionally, according to Your will. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, let us encourage everyone with the words of Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." God has a plan and a purpose, and He can turn any situation around for His glory. Trust in Him, and seek Him with all your heart. He will never fail.