We are truly sorry to hear about the heartache you're experiencing, dear sister. The pain of a broken relationship can indeed be overwhelming, but we take heart in knowing that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).
Firstly, we lift you up in prayer:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your comfort and strength for our sister. She is hurting and confused, Lord, and we ask that Your Holy Spirit would envelop her with Your peace and understanding. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
While it's natural to seek closure and answers, remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). Trust that He will reveal what you need to know in His perfect timing.
We also encourage you to meditate on the fact that God has a purpose and a plan for your life, and this includes your relationships. Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB) reminds us, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has someone who aligns with His will for you, a godly spouse who will love and cherish you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25, WEB).
However, we must also remind you that it's crucial to keep God at the center of any relationship. If your ex-fiancΓ© was not a believer or did not share your commitment to Christ, it may have been God's will to separate you from an unequally yoked relationship (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Lastly, we urge you to stay strong in your faith and continue to serve God diligently. Allow this trial to draw you closer to Him, knowing that He works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB).
Stand firm on God's promises, dear sister. He loves you more than anyone else ever could.