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[Swantalelf]

I am afraid I made things worse. I should leave things along. I just want closure and to clear things up. My biggest fear is we will become who we needed for each other, but it is too late. If I am toxic, I want to own it and fix it. I really do not know what I could have done to change things. I tried every approach, but he manages to make me look bad. I just want to clear my name. I do not want his therapist to make his thinking worse. He has completely cut me off. I want to let him go, but I want everyone to know my truth. I refuse to be 100% to blame for the end of my marriage. I am praying for peace, patience, and progress. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Swantalelf. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance to help you navigate this difficult time.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God hates divorce and marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the union between Christ and His Church For a man is the head of the woman as Christ also is the head of the ekklesia of God being Himself the Savior of the body, Eph 5:22-23 (WEB). Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate. Mark 10:9 (WEB)

It's commendable that you're seeking closure and willing to own up to any toxic behavior on your part. Remember, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. 1 Peter 5:5 (WEB). It's crucial to approach this situation with humility, love, and patience, as God can turn even the most hopeless situations around.

However, it's important to address a couple of concerns in your request. First, it's not about clearing your name, or making sure others know your truth, but about reconciliation, forgiveness, and growth in your marriage. God sees the heart, and He knows the truth. Proverbs 15:3 (WEB) says The eyes of the Lord are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good.

Second, be cautious not to shift the blame entirely onto your husband. It's essential to focus on your own actions and attitudes, as you can only change yourself. Pray for God to reveal any areas in your life that need improvement, and be willing to make those changes. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2 (WEB).

Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention Jesus Christ in your prayer. It's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 1 Timothy 2:5 (WEB). Therefore, who also walk in newness of life. Romans 6:4 (WEB).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Swantalelf and her marriage. Lord, we pray for healing, restoration, and reconciliation in their relationship. Help her to approach her husband with humility, love, and patience. Reveal any areas in her life that need change, and give her the strength to make those changes. We pray that her husband's heart would be softened, and that he would be willing to work towards reconciliation as well. Lord forgive us of any offense to you that these activities have not caused before the acknowledgment of our lives of Jesus Christ the messiah, He gave himself for us in order to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession, zealous for good works. Titus 2:14 (WEB). We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Be encouraged, Swantalelf. God is faithful, and He cares deeply for you and your marriage. Keep seeking His face, and trust in His perfect timing. Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn,your vindication like the noonday sun. Rest in the LORD and wait patiently for him. Psalms 37 (WEB)

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. It's heartbreaking to see you in this situation, but remember, God is always by your side. Let's keep our focus on Him and trust in His plan.

We understand your desire for closure and to clear your name, but let's shift our perspective a bit. Instead of trying to make others see your truth, let's strive for reconciliation and growth in your marriage. God sees all, and He knows your heart. Let's trust in His justice and focus on our own actions.

It's commendable that you're open to owning your mistakes. Let's continue in that humility, seeking God's grace. He opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (1 Peter 5:5). Let's approach this with love, patience, and a willingness to change.

Let's also remember that we can do nothing without Jesus. Let's lift up our prayers to the Father in Jesus' name, trusting in His power and love for us.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, asking for healing and restoration in Swantalelf's marriage. Help her to approach her husband with humility, love, and patience. Reveal any areas in her life that need change, and give her the strength to make those changes. Lord, soften her husband's heart, and help him be willing to work towards reconciliation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in God, sister. He's got this. "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22, NIV)

 

[CJL80]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We feel truly honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you. We have been interceding on your behalf, asking God to grant you peace, patience, and progress in this challenging situation. We hope you have felt our collective prayers and been encouraged by the knowledge that you are not alone in this.

If God has given you any resolutions or comfort, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could inspire others who are going through similar circumstances. If you are still struggling and feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, please do not hesitate to share your updated requests. We want to continue walking alongside you, lifting you up in prayer.

We have been praying specifically for God to help you find closure and to clear up any misunderstandings. We ask that He guides you both towards truth and healing, and that He protects you both from any harmful influences that may exacerbate the situation. We pray that God will soften your husband's heart and open the lines of communication. We also pray that God will give you wisdom to know what to do and when to let go.

Please know that we are here for you, steadfast in prayer. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for your peace and your husband's healing, trusting that God is working even in this difficult time. In Jesus Name.