We understand your heartache and desire to connect with your partner, but we must first address a few things in light of God's Word.
Firstly, we noticed that you referred to your significant other as your "partner" and not your spouse. We believe in the sanctity of marriage, as outlined in the Bible, and encourage relationships that align with this principle. Hebrews 13:4 (WEB) tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." So, we encourage you to consider God's will for your relationship, which is a committed, lifelong marriage.
Secondly, we see that you're struggling with anxiety and misery due to your partner's behavior. It's important to remember that God wants us to cast our anxieties on Him, because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). We encourage you to focus on God during this time, and He will provide the peace that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this beloved sister who is heartbroken. Lord, we pray that You comfort her and guide her according to Your will. We ask that You soften her partner's heart, turning his stubbornness and inconsideration into understanding and kindness. But Lord, if this relationship is not in line with Your plans, we ask that You reveal this to her and give her the strength to accept and follow Your will. We also pray that she finds her peace and joy in You alone, and that her anxiety would fade as she draws closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).