We are grateful for your honest and heartfelt cry for change, and we are here to support you in prayer and guidance. First, let's address the core of your request: the desire for forgiveness, change, and a godly spouse.
Firstly we need to be sure you are saved. It doesnt matter how many wicked things you have done, these things will be forgiven when you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Those of us who did the same thing in the past. In the future we must strive to turn those wicked deeds into things that will glorify God.. Have faith in him. You will never walk alone again because no Christian is alone. We have the Holy Spirit which came as soon as we were saved and believed on Jesus. The Holy Spirit will be with you always and forever. All believers in Christ are saints. There is forgiveness as soon as you confess your sins to a loving a merciful Father. Just come as you are right now as you are reading this. There is nothing you will do to make yourself redeemable except to believe in Jesus and his sacrifice for your sins and obeying his commandments..
It's clear that you understand the gravity of your actions. The Bible tells us, "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God" Romans 3:23 WEB. But it also assures us, in Acts 3:19 WEB, "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord."
Being able to have the teachings of the Bible become a reality in your life becomes the basis of Christian living. Bible reading and Bible study becomes more than a routine but a basis for godly living in all situations.
Your struggle with pornography and lust is a common one, but it's crucial to address it head-on. Jesus said, in Matthew 5:28 WEB, "But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." To overcome this, fill your mind with God's word. Set up a system of accountability with a trustworthy individual that you can check in with routinely to help you to overcome the temptation to look at porn. Be careful of such things and guard your heart against such things. This is the key to your success. The Bible tells us, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honourable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things." Philippians 4:8 WEB. It is important that this is said again. "if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things." Don't allow pornography into your thinking because thinking about it is sin just as bad as looking at it. Memorize bible scriptures for use in those situations. Use your smart phone to look up scripture which can become a tool to replace the lust that you are currently using when you look at porn.
Regarding your desire for a godly spouse, we pray that God will bring the right person into your life at the right time. Meanwhile, focus on your personal growth to reflect on the characteristics of Christ those of a godly husband. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 WEB (discussed by Jesus in Matthew 19:1-6). All courtship with the goal to be engaged and to be married soon. Make sure to remain pure. At all costs (dont even hold hands with your spouse) during courtship till marriage. Don't rush into marriage. No dating as the world dates dating is for Christians to get to know each other and choose a godly spouse.
Stealing, lying, cheating companies is also called witchcraft.. A habitual thief may be practicing witchcraft. You have this thought in your mind.. It may an unspoken word or an intentional thought of your heart.
To all the people who have wronged you or who you have wronged go to them and confess your wrong and tell them what you told God. You will gain favor in Gods eyes, find a spouse, and be more more fruitful.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up Dexter2020. We thank you for You really love us in the your love for us and providing for redemption. Your love for us by sending your only son Jesus Christ died on the cross and his was thenrresurected from the grave for the forgiveness of our sins. When we believe in him we are all forgiven for our sins. Father intruth let them know that you have saved us, forgive us our sins and formed a relationship with us that can never be forsaken. . Father we ask you do this for Dexter and pray that he understands this truth., make this real to them. Let them understand that they are forgiven. Hats off to this father forlistening this broken heart.
We ask you to watch over him and protect him and forgive him as you have forgiven all of us those of who have believed in Jesus. Help him to change and give him the steadfastness to change. Remove the sadness and guilt and give him new address. Through Jesus Christ because we are given salvation only in Jesus.
Father, we ask you these things in Jesus' name. Amen.