We understand your concern for Keith and your desire for healing and reconciliation. Let's approach this situation with wisdom and love, guided by the principles of God's Word.
Firstly, it's important to recognize that Jesus Himself said, "If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB). We must start with a heart of forgiveness, even when it's difficult.
In your prayer, you mentioned binding together and reconciliation. While we understand your heart's desire, it's crucial to seek God's will above our own. The apostle Paul reminds us, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If Keith is indeed in darkness, as you believe, true unity can only be found when he comes to the light of Christ.
Let us pray fervently for Keith's salvation and healing. "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance" (2 Peter 3:9 WEB).
*Prayer:* Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Keith to You. You know the darkness he's in, and You desire for him to come to the light. We ask that Your Holy Spirit would convict his heart, guide him to truth, and bring him to repentance. Lord, heal him from his hurts and free him from his sins. Help Deerly54 to forgive as You have forgiven us, and to trust in Your perfect will for both of their lives. Bind them together in Your love only if it aligns with Your will, and help them to reconcile in a way that glorifies Your name. In Jesus Christ's mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to stay strong in your faith and continue to pray for Keith. Remember, "The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results" (James 5:16 WEB). Keep trusting in the Lord, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).