We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing following your breakup. It's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Even when we don't understand why certain things happen, we can trust that God has a plan and a purpose for everything we go through. This would include a boyfriend and girlfriend only inside a courtship situation.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear in the scriptures. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB states, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? It is essential to align with a fellow believer in Christ, as this will ensure that you both share the same values and foundation for your relationship. The context of this is not a partner, it is a spouse. There is no basis in the Bible for a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship outside of courtship or for unmarried persons to have sex.
We also want to encourage you with the words of Psalm 147:3 WEB, He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Trust that He is working in your life, even through this pain. It should also be noted that Isaiah 55:89 WEB states that For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. 9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. The heart condition and the intentions of the two people involved may not be ready. Any discussion of pieces of relationships falling into place outside God's will for a marriage can never be whole and is not in God's will. This intimacy with another person should only be within the bounds of marriage as there is a lot more to marriage than in a culture is what is portrayed in movies or television.
Regarding your question about whether this person is meant to be your husband, we pray that God will give you clear discernment and wisdom. However, let us also share that God is should be the priority in your life. If this man is also a believer and both your intentions would include a godly and pure courtship that would have a goal of marriage. It is very difficult to answer by prayer though how two persons who are spiritually blind in their intentions that are not keeping Him first in their lives or their goal is to fulfill an immediate need or desire would be godly advice to be given. The culture of "partner" in today's culture does not consider God's intentions for intimacy or marriage or that marriage is a covenant. Please remember the words of Matthew 6:33 WEB, But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. What is the way a Christian should seek a spouse in the current time and place that God has placed you? How can you become closer to a person and assure that God is the center of a lifelong marriage and walking together in the father's will in a marriage that is pleasing to Him through encouragement and faith together in a covenant marriage with Jesus Christ at the center with each other?
Please pray,
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our dear sister/brother in Christ to you, asking for Your healing touch on their heart. We pray that You will comfort them in their pain and help them to understand that Your ways are higher than our ways. We pray over every confusion, every doubt, and declare that the Lord will reveal to her through the Holy Spirit what picture depicts the reality of her situation and help her to find clarity and be decisive and steadfast for your practice of the will for her life as she continues to seek a godly spouse. that Your will be done in her life. In the mean time give her the peace of mind and heart to live and think like Jesus, the strength to do the will of God and to trust that You have a plan and a purpose for her life, including who You have designed to be her spouse. We ask quoting John14:14 WEB If you will ask anything in my Christ's name and I will do it we ask that you will show her what it is that you would have her focus her energy on, rather than waiting for the relationship that aligns with Your will and that she would choose to keep a soft, pliable, teachable heart to align with your kingdom. Help her to fix her eyes on You and trust in Your timing. We pray for her healing and peace to move on from the past and the faith to be able to bond to a Christian spouse that will be a lifelong bond. We pray that she will not be held down and be weighted with despair and that all of this will be released with your blessings and grace that provides unity with the spirit to walk in the spirit with Christ and not the chaotic bondage of the flesh. that if it is Your will, You will restore this relationship with this person who also believes in Jesus Christ, and seeking Your will and finding a spouse through courtship leading to marriage with Jesus at the center of all their decisions and relationships for marriage that we should ask in Jesus's name or walk away completely and have faith in our Heavenly Father's plans. We pray that you will uplift every peace, encourage and uplift her to be flexible to release the will of the son together in the name of Jesus Christ amen
Hello everyone! Let's lift up 
Let's lift them up in Jesus' name! 
Let's lift up these requests in Jesus' name! 
