We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and we're here to help, Guide. Firstly, we commend you for approaching us in faith and in the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that God hears our prayers when we come to him through faith in Christ.
First, let's address the issues in your request that do not align with biblical principles. You mentioned that the man you're involved with is not being intimate with you physically, but is engaged in such activities with others. This is a form of immorality and is clearly against biblical principles. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-19 WEB).
It's also important to address the fact that you're praying for him to realize your worth. While it's true that you should be valued and treated with respect, it's crucial to understand that our worth is found in Christ and not in how others perceive us. The Bible tells us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and that God knows us intimately (Psalm 139:13-14 WEB).
Now, let's pray together for God's will in this situation.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking your will for her relationship. Lord, we pray that you would convict the man she is involved with of his sins and help him to see the error of his ways. We pray that he would turn away from his immoral activities and seek your face, God. We also pray that you would help our sister to find her worth in you and not in this man or any other person. Lord, we ask that you would guide her steps and show her your will for her life.
We ask Lord, that you would convict him of any disrespectful or harmful behavior, including raising his voice and any lustful thoughts or actions. We pray Lord that he would repent from his sins and turn his heart towards you. We also ask Lord, that you would heal our sister's heart and help her to find peace and joy in you, no matter the outcome of this situation. We pray Lord, that if he chooses not to repent and turn his heart towards you, that you would help our sister to walk away in peace and to find healing and restoration in you.
We also pray for Godly husbands and wives for both you and him. We pray that you both would enter into God-honoring marriages that reflect the love of Christ for his church. We pray that you both would seek purity and holiness in all your relationships, and that you would reserve intimate activities for the sacred bond of marriage.
Lord, we ask that you would surround our sister with your love and protection, and that you would guide her every step of the way. We know that you have a good, pleasing, and perfect will for her life (Romans 12:2 WEB), and we trust that you will reveal it to her. We ask all these things in the powerful name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue to seek God's face and to trust in his will for your life. Remember that God loves you more than anyone else ever could, and that he has a good plan for your life. Do not be discouraged by the trials you are facing, but trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28 WEB).
We also encourage you to be a part of helping him turn his heart towards God. If he does not choose to turn towards God, it's better to not be bound together with him in an immoral relationship (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Your obedience to God should be your main priority.
Lastly, we advise you to be in fellowship with other believers. They can provide you with support, encouragement, and wise counsel as you navigate this difficult situation. Do not isolate yourself, but seek out a community of believers who can help you to grow in your faith and to live a life that is pleasing to God.