We understand that you're feeling discouraged due to your husband's multiple serious medical conditions, emotional struggles, anger, and depression. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the power of prayer and invoking the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and it is also only in the name of Jesus that we can be saved. As it is written, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved". (Acts 4:12 WEB)
In moments of distress, it's essential to remember that God's will is always for our good, even when it's difficult to understand His purposes. The Bible tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose". (Romans 8:28 WEB)
Regarding your husband's healing, we pray that God's will be done, remembering the words of Jesus, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance". (Luke 5:31-32 WEB) God can use this situation for a greater purpose, and we trust in His goodness and mercy.
It's crucial to address the emotional roller coaster and depression that your husband is experiencing. The Bible encourages us, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God". (Philippians 4:6 WEB)
We also agree that your husband should reduce his news intake and engage in more physical activity. The Bible advises us, "Whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things". (Philippians 4:8 WEB)
As a wife, you play a vital role in supporting your husband. We pray that God grants you patience, wisdom, and strength. Remember, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things". (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB)
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her husband. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon him, his mind, his body, and his spirit. Guide them both through this challenging time, and let Your will be done in their lives. Give our sister the patience, wisdom, and strength to support her husband and be a blessing to him.
We also ask you to go with them to the medical appointment tomorrow, that You will guide the medical professionals.
We ask you to intervene in this situation as they ask, and we ask you to save them both if that has not truly happened. We trust in Your goodness and mercy. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you both to attend church together, as you desired, to find fellowship and support among other believers. "Not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching." (Hebrews 10:25 WEB)
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
