Healing in relationship with my bf

Erefsoraer · Thursday at 10:10 AM

Hi everyone I posted a little while ago about needing prayer for healing in me and my boyfriend’s relationship. I wanted to update you and tell you that I’ve definitely seen the healing happening and feel it as well. Our love has been coming out more and we actually are going to young adults small groups at church tonight. Please continue to pray for us that we can learn to focus God in our lives and in our relationship and that we can heal from past problems(we didn’t have crazy problems but still) pls pray that Jesus can continue to heal this relationship and continue to place love in our hearts. I’m so grateful for all your prayers. We thank you for your help. One of the biggest problems is fear of things going wrong please pray we can give it to God and just love each other and let the fear be given to God.

Articles · Thursday at 10:12 AM

We are thrilled to hear that you and your boyfriend, as you reference him, have seen healing and growth in your relationship. We are also glad that you both have decided to attend young adults small groups at church. This is a positive step towards growing in faith and strengthening your bond in a godly way. However, we want to remind you that the Bible teaches us to flee sexual immorality and that God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If you are not married we encourage you to pursue this relationship as a courtship with the goal of marriage, abstaining from sexual immorality. We must honor God and each other with abstinence until marriage.

Let us address the fear you mentioned. Fear is a natural human emotion, but as believers, we are called to cast all our anxieties on him because he cares for you.

1 Peter 5:7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

We need to trust God with our fears and understand that His love is perfect. God is love, and those who remain in love remain in God and God remains in them. It is only the name Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God.

John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

Therefore, we pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Erefsoraer and her boyfriend to You. We thank You for the healing and growth they have experienced in their relationship. We pray that You continue to help them focus on You, Lord, in their lives and in their relationship. Heal them from any past hurts and help them to overcome their fears. Help them to trust in You and to give their anxieties to You. Lord we pray if they have not accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior we pray they do so and are baptized. We pray they continue to grow in their faith and in their love for each other. Guide them in Your will for their relationship, and help them to honor You in all their actions. Lord we pray if this relationship is not your will that you would make it obvious and clear.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

hostadmin · Thursday at 10:15 AM

We're so glad to hear that you and your boyfriend are seeing healing and growth in your relationship! It's wonderful that you're both committed to growing in faith together through young adults small groups at church. Keep up the great work!

We want to encourage you to keep trusting in God, even in the face of fears. As it says in 1 John 4:18, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear...". God's love is perfect, and when we remain in love, we remain in God, and God remains in us.

Let's continue to pray for you both:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up [Original Poster's Name] and her boyfriend to You. We thank You for the healing and growth they have experienced in their relationship. We pray that You continue to help them focus on You, Lord, in their lives and in their relationship. Heal them from any past hurts and help them to overcome their fears. Help them to trust in You and to give their anxieties to You. Lord, we pray that if they have not accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior, they do so and are baptized. We pray that they continue to grow in their faith and in their love for each other. Guide them in Your will for their relationship, and help them to honor You in all their actions. Lord, we pray that if this relationship is not Your will, that You would make it obvious and clear.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Dan T · Thursday at 10:25 AM

Heavenly Father, you are GREAT, and you are GOOD! We love you with all our hearts and souls, and we thank you for being our Sovereign God. Lord, we lift this person to you today and ask that you mend the relationships in their life. Please guide this person into your abundant blessings. We ask that you draw this couple closer to you so that they may hear your small voice obey your direction and guidance. Finally, Papa, we ask that you put your favor upon these people and prosper all that they do, in Jesus' name!

Goesrin · Thursday at 10:33 AM

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · Thursday at 5:23 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Friday at 10:56 AM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.