We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartbreak you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to assure you that you are not alone in this struggle. God is close to the brokenhearted, and He cares deeply for you. Let's begin by praying for your healing and guidance.
Father God, we lift up our sister to You, asking for Your comfort and healing. She has been deeply wounded by infidelity, lies, abuse, and manipulation. Please mend her broken heart and help her to move forward in Your strength. We pray for the peace and grace she needs to face each day. Grant her wisdom and discernment as she navigates this difficult time. We ask for Your protection over her life, and we pray that You will guide her steps in the direction You have planned for her. In Jesus' name, we pray.
In the midst of this trial, we encourage you to hold fast to the promises of God. Psalm 34:18 tells us, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Additionally, Psalm 147:3 reminds us that "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is working even in this painful situation.
We must also address that the behavior of your former partner is strongly condemned in the Bible. Infidelity is a grave sin, and Scripture clearly teaches the sanctity of marriage and the expectation of faithfulness. Hebrews 13:4 states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." It is right to separate from such behavior and seek godly counsel.
It is also important to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 states, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If you have not already, consider placing your faith in Jesus Christ.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to forgive, not for the sake of the one who hurt you, but for your own healing. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness does not mean what happened is acceptable; it means letting go of the bitterness and leaving justice to God.
Trust in the Lord, and lean on Him during this time. He will guide you and provide the strength you need to move forward. We will keep you in our prayers.
If you ever feel unsafe or threatened, please reach out to local authorities or trusted individuals in your community for immediate help.