Healing and Restoration for Marriage

Navan · Sep 23, 2024

For the 3rd time in our 13 years of marriage we are facing the possibility of divorcing.. We have both mistakes and hurt each other. The hurt I caused my husband has him stuck in a place where he feels like he cant get passed it enough to continue our relationship. l pray for his healing every day .... Recently my husband has caused me hurt in conversing with another female... He says its just friendship but I believe that it could be more.. He hid it from me and now thats its out every time he is away or on the phone my mind wonders is this day Im replaced.and being lied too He doesn't understand my pain .. If im honest I dont trust him anymore...I stooped to checking call logs and if confronted he has a story thats to good to be true but because I love him I want to believe.... I don't know what will happen to us I know I can't fix it and I have to put it in Gods hands and leave it there.... I asking God to intervene in this connection made with this other woman and Give me peace to endure because Im ready to quit and walk away

Articles · Sep 23, 2024

Navan, we empathize with the pain and struggles you're facing in your marriage. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will and restoration for your union.

Firstly, remember what God has joined together, let no man separate (Matthew 19:6 WEB). God's heart is for reconciliation and healing, not divorce. As you've both made mistakes and hurt each other, it's crucial to seek forgiveness and heal together, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).

You mentioned your husband feels stuck due to the hurt you caused. Pray for his healing, as you've been doing, and trust God to soften his heart. Remember, love keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5 WEB).

Addressing your husband's friendship with another woman, the Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). Even the appearance of evil should be avoided (1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB). It's wise to set boundaries to protect your marriage. Express your feelings to your husband calmly and pray for understanding.

It's also important to address your trust issues. The Bible tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and not lean on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5 WEB). It's normal to feel hurt and betrayed, but try to trust God with your husband's heart. Continue praying for him and ask God to help you trust again.

Lastly, you're right in saying you can't fix this alone. Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Trust God with your marriage, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:6 WEB).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your divine intervention in Navan's marriage. Lord, we pray for healing and forgiveness to flow between Navan and her husband. Break the chains of hurt and mistrust, and replace them with love, patience, and understanding. Lord, if there's any inappropriate connection with another woman, we pray You sever it right now. Give Navan peace and strength to endure and trust in You. Help them both to seek You first, and guide their marriage according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep praying, Navan. Don't lose hope. God is working even when we can't see it. Ensure you're both pursuing God individually and together, as a cord of three strands is not quickly broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12 WEB).

hostadmin · Sep 23, 2024

We're here with you, Navan, holding your marriage in our hearts. It's tough, we know, but remember, God is in the business of restoration and healing. We're trusting Him for your marriage, just as He trusts us to keep trying.

We've been where you are, feeling the sting of betrayal and the pain of mistrust. It's like a storm, isn't it? But remember, even the strongest winds don't last forever. God is faithful, and He's walking through this storm with you.

We've been praying for your husband's healing, for his heart to soften and for him to understand the pain he's causing. We're also praying for wisdom for you, Navan. The Bible tells us to be wise as serpents and innocent as doves (Matthew 10:16). Trust your instincts, but also trust God with your husband's heart.

We're here to lift you up in prayer, Navan. We're believing with you for your marriage to be restored, for the chains of hurt to be broken, and for love to flow freely again. We're trusting God to guide your steps and to bring healing and understanding to your marriage.

Keep holding on, Navan. God is working, even when you can't see it. Trust Him, and trust the process. We're right here with you, every step of the way.

Sunshine777 · Sep 23, 2024

Navan said:
For the 3rd time in our 13 years of marriage we are facing the possibility of divorcing.. We have both mistakes and hurt each other. The hurt I caused my husband has him stuck in a place where he feels like he cant get passed it enough to continue our relationship. l pray for his healing every day .... Recently my husband has caused me hurt in conversing with another female... He says its just friendship but I believe that it could be more.. He hid it from me and now thats its out every time he is away or on the phone my mind wonders is this day Im replaced.and being lied too He doesn't understand my pain .. If im honest I dont trust him anymore...I stooped to checking call logs and if confronted he has a story thats to good to be true but because I love him I want to believe.... I don't know what will happen to us I know I can't fix it and I have to put it in Gods hands and leave it there.... I asking God to intervene in this connection made with this other woman and Give me peace to endure because Im ready to quit and walk away

My dear sister in Christ, I pray you receive clarity and a confirmation of what God desires for you to do. Ask God to reveal to you through scripture as to the plans God has for this situation. Ask the Lord to speak to your heart and conscious. Ask God to help you forgive him and let it go. The Lord wouldn’t put more on you than you can bare. While God hates divorce, He also says do not be yoked with an unbeliever. If it’s Gods will for it to work His will be done, However if he separates to call to peace, His Will be done. Stay in the Word of God and your prayer closet

God never fails. May the Lord bless you and keep you and make His face shine upon you.

Lizzymay · Sep 23, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Pendollyn · Sep 23, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Sep 24, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 29, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.