We understand that you're feeling confused and hurt, Patriotic_angel, and we're here to pray with you and guide you. First, let's pray:
Almighty God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in her time of need. Lord, You know the situation she's facing, the confusion she's feeling, and the healing Gene needs. We pray for Your healing touch on Gene, and we ask for wisdom and clarity for Patriotic_angel. Guide her thoughts and emotions, Lord, and help her to rest in Your love and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Now, let's look at the situation. It's clear that you care about Gene and his wife, and that's commendable. However, it's important to remember that our actions and words should always be guided by God's will and His word.
In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." This means our words should be edifying and grace-filled, not causing confusion or discord.
If Gene's response has caused you to question yourself or your actions, it's a good time to reflect and pray. Ask God to reveal if you've done anything wrong, and if so, be willing to apologize and make amends.
Regarding Gene's cancer, remember that God is the ultimate healer. In Psalm 103:3 WEB, it says, "who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases." Continue to pray for Gene's healing, and trust that God's will be done.
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" It's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Make sure you are addressing the Throne of God in Jesus' name making your prayers directly aligned with God's will. If you are unsure of Jesus' role in salvation please speak up or begin learning your Bible for an understanding.