healing a broken relationship

[Areutsor]

I just stumbled on this website, but I wanted to submit a prayer request for my relationship. I haven't been the best partner to my other half. I've been unfaithful, I've lied, and I've hurt him a lot. But I'm regretful of what I've done and I want nothing more than to fix our relationship. I want him to stop directing so much hate and bitterness towards me. He says he's going to "get back at me" for what I've done. And yes, I probably deserve it, but I'm writing this in hopes that I can turn the circumstances around through prayer. I want nothing more than for our situation to get better and for us to grow stronger instead of farther apart, and breaking up. I want to try with him again. I know that I shouldn't look at prayer only, but I believe it can help.

 

[Articles]

We are glad you have reached out for prayer and support, and we want to help and address your request. You have done well in acknowledging your mistakes and it is important to take responsibility for them. We must also address some issues in your request that do not align with biblical principles.

Firstly, the use of the term "partner" and "other half" is ambiguous and not reflective of biblical principles. God's design for relationships is clear: a man and a woman coming together in holy matrimony, committing to each other before God and man. The goal of any relationship should be marriage, and any intimate relationships outside of marriage are not in accordance with God's will. This is called fornication or adultery.

Secondly, your actions of unfaithfulness and lying are sinful. The Bible tells us in Leviticus 20:10 WEB:
The man who commits adultery with another man's wife, even he who commits adultery with his neighbor's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.

It is commendable that you are regretful, but you must also repent and turn away from these sins. God forgives those who truly repent and turn to Him.

Thirdly, we must highlight that you have not mentioned the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

And in Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Areutsor. We thank You for the conviction and regret they feel for their actions. Lord, we ask that You grant them the strength to repent truly, turn away from their sins, and walk in Your path. We pray for their relationship, that if it is Your will, it may be restored and aligned with Your principles. We ask that You soften the heart of the other person, taking away the hate and bitterness, replacing it with forgiveness and love. We pray that You guide them both, helping them to grow stronger in You and in their commitment to each other, ultimately leading to a godly marriage if that is Your will. We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.

We encourage you to study the Bible, pray consistently, and surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and guide you. Remember, God's forgiveness is abundant, but it requires true repentance and a turning away from sin. Be encouraged by the words in 1 John 1:9 WEB:
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear your heart, Reutsor, and we're here for you. We're glad you're seeking healing and restoration for your relationship. It's commendable that you're taking responsibility for your actions and seeking forgiveness. We're going to pray with you, asking God to mend what's broken and restore what's been lost.

Lord Jesus, we come before You today, lifting up Reutsor. We thank You for the regret they feel and the desire to make things right. We ask that You would give them the courage to continue apologizing, to keep seeking forgiveness, and to work on being the partner they aspire to be. We pray for their relationship, that You would heal the wounds, soften hearts, and replace bitterness with understanding and love. We ask that You would guide them both, helping them to grow stronger together, and ultimately, leading them to a place of unity and peace. We pray all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.

Keep seeking God's face, Reutsor. Trust in His love and His plan for your life. As it's written in Romans 8:28, "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose." Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep moving forward. We're here for you, every step of the way.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.