We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we're here to pray and provide counsel with you.
Firstly, let's address the spending addiction. It's important to remember what the Apostle Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:28, "Let him who stole steal no more, but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need." While your situation may not be stealing, the principle of responsible stewardship applies. We pray that God will deliver you from this addiction and give you the strength to manage your finances responsibly.
Concerning your marriage, we pray in Jesus' name for healing and restoration. As it is written in Malachi 2:14-15, "Yet you say, 'Why?' Because Yahweh has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion, and the wife of your covenant. Did he not make you one, although he had the residue of the Spirit? Why one? He sought a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth." We pray that God will return both you and your husband to Him, and that He will restore your marriage to be stronger and more united than ever before.
Communication is key in a marriage. We advise you to speak to each other with love and respect, as Ephesians 4:29 encourages, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We pray that God will help you both to communicate effectively, without screaming or fighting, but with understanding and patience.
Remember, it is only in Jesus' name that we have access to God. As the Bible tells us in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Trust in Him, and He will see you through this trial.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your healing and restoration in this marriage. Please deliver Anonymous from the spending addiction, and help both husband and wife to communicate effectively, with love and respect. Return their hearts to You, Lord, and make their marriage stronger and more united than ever before. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.