We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles of your ex-girlfriend and her loss. It is important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB.
Firstly, we would like to address that the use of 'ex-girlfriend' suggests a past relationship. We encourage you to consider the purpose and future of your interactions, keeping in mind that any relationship should ultimately align with biblical principles and honor God.
Regarding her healing, we pray that God will comfort her heart and provide her with the strength to love again, in a way that honors Him. We pray that she will find solace in Jesus' love and that the Holy Spirit will guide her towards a godly spouse when she is ready Psalm 147:3 WEB, 'He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.'. It is only through a relationship with Jesus Christ that we find true healing and peace John 14:6 WEB. Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this dear woman who is struggling to love again after her loss. We ask, Lord, that You would be her comfort and strength during this time. Help her to cast all her anxieties onto You, knowing that You care for her 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.
We also pray for the one who submitted this request, that You would guide their interactions and help them to honor You in their relationship. We ask that You would direct their steps and bless their relationship with a desire to glorify God, and seek godly spouses. If there is any hope and desire of reconciliation, let them both pursue and pray for a godly marriage. We pray all this in Jesus Christ's precious name. Amen.
Lastly, we would like to encourage both of you to fix your hope completely on the grace that will be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed 1 Peter 1:13 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.