Having issues accepting mom's boyfriend and dad's boyfriend

[Anonymous]

My parents divorce when I was 3 or 4 years old. Last time I seen them married my Dad was yelling, screaming at my mom while she held me and then he punched the house window where I stood next to my mom. And my Dad was angry. That's the last time I seen my parents together. My Dad remarried a occult lady. She use to be around medicine women's. My mom met a man that is possibly a medicine man. But I have hard time accepting either of my parents partners. And I think they both get angry with me because I have hard time accepting the people they choose as partners. I always thought from what I read in bible that people are only supposed to be married 1 time. So I don't understand my parent's decisions. A pastor once warned my Dad that if he divorces with my Mom that God can divorce him as well so I've been very uncertain about my parent's divorce and relationships

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance. Let's first address the issues of divorce and remarriage, as well as the relationships your parents are currently involved in.

God's original design for marriage is one man and one woman for life. This was established in the creation account in Eden with our first parents in Genesis 2 24 Because of this, a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. Divorce is not God's will, but because of the hardness of human hearts, God allowed it Malachi 2 16 For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don’t be unfaithful. Jesus echoed this in Matthew 19 8 He said to them, Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so.

The Bible is clear that remarriage after divorce while the original spouse is still living is adultery Mark 10 11 He said to them, Whoever divorces his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her. except in cases where one spouse was sexually immoral then the other spouse being able to choose to divorce and to be able to remarry Mark 10 12 If a woman divorces her husband, and marries another, she commits adultery..

Regarding your parents' current relationships, the Bible clearly condemns the occult Deuteronomy 18 10 There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, and Deuteronomy 18 11 or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer, and 2 Chronicles 33 6 He made his children to pass through the fire in the valley of the son of Hinnom; and he practiced sorcery, and used enchantments, and dealt with those who had familiar spirits, and with wizards. He worked much evil in the sight of Yahweh, to provoke him to anger. and medicine men and women, which can be tied to sorcery and witchcraft Galatians 5 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies,. Also 2 Chronicles 33 6, Revelation 22 15 For outside are the dogs, the sorcerers, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood..

We see that you mentioned anger in both your parents and their relationships. This is also against God's will Ephesians 4 26, Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath,. It's important to express your concerns to your parents in a loving and respectful manner.

Remember Jesus told us Matthew 18 3 and said Truly I tell you, unless you change, and become as little children, you will in no way enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.. Our most important priority is to please God in Jesus Christ. You can also pray Psalm 64 1 Hear my voice, God, in my complaint. Preserve my life from fear of the enemy..

Now, let's pray for you:

"Father, we lift up Anonymous to You, asking for Your guidance, strength, and wisdom in this situation. Help them to speak the truth in love to their parents, and to trust in Your will for their lives. We pray you will bring any conviction necessary so that both parents and yourself can come into a relationship that lives for you. In Jesus name we pray, Amen."

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want to stand with you in prayer. It must be tough accepting your parents' choices, especially given the past experiences you've had. We understand that it's hard to see your parents in relationships that don't align with what you believe is God's plan for marriage.

Remember, God's love for you is unwavering, and He wants the best for you and your family. It's okay to feel uncertain, but try to trust that God has a purpose in all this. He can use even the most difficult situations to draw us closer to Him.

We encourage you to keep communicating with your parents, but do so with kindness and respect. It's important to express your feelings, but always in a way that honors God. Keep praying for them, and for yourself, that God would work in all your hearts.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we lift up our friend to You today. Help them to navigate these challenging waters with wisdom and grace. Give them the words to speak to their parents, and fill their hearts with love and understanding. We ask that You would work in each of their lives, drawing them all closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Brother James]

My parents divorce when I was 3 or 4 years old. Last time I seen them married my Dad was yelling, screaming at my mom while she held me and then he punched the house window where I stood next to my mom. And my Dad was angry. That's the last time I seen my parents together. My Dad remarried a occult lady. She use to be around medicine women's. My mom met a man that is possibly a medicine man. But I have hard time accepting either of my parents partners. And I think they both get angry with me because I have hard time accepting the people they choose as partners. I always thought from what I read in bible that people are only supposed to be married 1 time. So I don't understand my parent's decisions. A pastor once warned my Dad that if he divorces with my Mom that God can divorce him as well so I've been very uncertain about my parent's divorce and relationships

Praying for you and your situation in Jesus. I am so sorry for your situation with your family. I know it seems no one could possibly relate to your situation. My parents were or got divorced yet they didn’t marry strange medicine people although they did remarry yet I still believe that I could keep trying to take no thought for my life from Mathew 6.

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[flora]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.