well the sadness comes first from my childrens father. I do not know why men leave their kids and go out and have more kids and leave them. It is scary.,I AM PRYAING THAT WOMEN WILL BE STRONG.IF YOU ARE A SINGLE PARENT I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. I AM PRAYING THAT YOU WILL HAVE CONFIDENCE AND BRING YOUR CHILDREN UP TO LOVE THE LORD.