Hate

[Swantalelf]

My husband asked me to leave him alone. He has a problem with everything about me. I pray for him to get a grip. If he is using me or has plans to hurt me, please do not let him return. Show me how to talk to these people. Teach me how to act around these people. Help me act right. I tried very hard to put up with him, but he kept getting smart with me. What am I doing wrong? I wish he or this problem would go away. I do not love him. I am afraid he is going to cost me to lose money or my house. I am afraid he is going to stick me with his bills. Help me to forgive him and be professional. I will treat him like a boss I do not like. Help me to ignore his negative behavior. Show me scriptures to say. I love You, God. Thank You. I am sorry for complaining and being ungrateful. I am hurt and confused. Why does everyone have a problem with me? Help me get use to being alone. Give me the courage to go out by myself. If my husband leaves me, please let me be able to pay my bills and have health insurance. Help me find a plan on my own, so I do not have to depend on him. I was blindsided this year. This is why I am afraid to ask for a divorce right now. My desire to save money is my biggest motivator for trying to make things work. Forgive me for my sins. Please let him listen to someone or see the errors of his ways. Please Do not let his problems ruin my life. I feel bad for him, but his behavior towards me is wrong. If I am doing something to cause it, I beg you to show me, so I can stop. I will be professional with him. Remove him from my thoughts and erase the bad memories. I want to forgive and forget. It is not personal because he does not value me as a person. Show him he is a weak man and all alone. Make him feel it. He owes me a real and heart felt apology. I hope he gets back what he puts in. I hope he feels sorry for himself because he is all he cares about. Maybe I should treat him like he treats me. I hope I make him feel the way he makes me feel. I hope he feels the way I do. I hope he hates himself as much as I hate him. I pray the hate goes away. We have no where to go. Amen.

 

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We understand your pain and confusion, Swantalelf, and we're here to help you navigate this difficult situation in a way that honors God. Let's start by addressing some key points in your prayer request and align them with biblical principles.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). However, He also cares about your well-being and safety. It's clear that you're struggling in your marriage, and it's crucial to seek God's will in this matter.

We must address the feelings of hate you've expressed. The Bible tells us, "Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother, is in the darkness even until now" (1 John 2:9 WEB). It's natural to feel anger and hurt, but it's important not to let those feelings turn into hatred. Instead, pray for God to help you forgive your husband and ask Him to change your heart.

You mentioned that you're afraid of financial loss and being left alone. Remember what Jesus said about worry: "Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’... for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:31-33 WEB). Trust that God will provide for your needs.

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our sister, Swantalelf. Lord, she's hurting and confused, and she needs Your divine guidance. Help her to forgive her husband, just as You have forgiven her. Replace any feelings of hate with Your love, which surpasses all understanding.

Lord, we ask that You reveal to her any actions or behaviors that may be contributing to the problems in her marriage, so she can address them accordingly. Give her the wisdom to know how to act around her husband and how to communicate with him effectively.

We also ask that You provide for her financially, God. She's worried about her future, but we know that You are a good and faithful provider. Help her to trust in You completely.

Finally, Lord, we pray for her husband. We ask that You soften his heart and open his eyes to see the error of his ways. We pray that You would bring healing and restoration to their marriage, if it is Your will.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be strong and courageous, Swantalelf. Trust in the Lord, and He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). As for dealing with your husband, follow the advice given in 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."

Lastly, it's important to note that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only by His name that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). Make sure to acknowledge Him in your prayers, as it is through His sacrifice that we are saved and have the right to come before the Father.

 

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We're here with you, sister. We understand the pain and fear you're feeling, and we're here to support you. Let's turn to God's Word for guidance.

In 1 Corinthians 7:15, we read, "But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace." This verse suggests that if an unbelieving spouse leaves, the believing spouse is not bound to stay in the marriage. However, we must also remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). So, we should pray for God's will to be done in this situation.

We're concerned about your safety and financial security. In Matthew 6:25-26, Jesus says, "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?" Trust that God will provide for your needs.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, asking for Your guidance and protection for our sister. Lord, she's hurting and afraid, but we know that You are a God who sees and cares. Help her to trust in You completely, even in this difficult situation. Give her the strength to forgive her husband, as You have forgiven her. Help her to act and speak in a way that honors You, even in the face of her husband's actions. Provide for her financially, Lord, and give her the courage to face whatever comes her way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, sister. Let's continue to lift you up in prayer and support you in any way we can.

 

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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.