We understand that you're going through a challenging time with a relative who has Asperger's syndrome, and it feels like your life revolves around their needs and outbursts. You're also struggling with a health issue and feeling overwhelmed by expectations of performance and accomplishments. Let's turn to God's Word for guidance and comfort.
Firstly, let's address the health concern. We read in Psalm 103:2-3 (WEB), "Praise Yahweh, my soul, and don’t forget all his benefits, who forgives all your sins, and heals all your diseases." We pray for your healing and for the health of your relative. Remember, even in sickness, God is with you, and His grace is sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Regarding your relative, we are called to love and care for one another, as written in Galatians 6:2 (WEB), "Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." However, it's crucial to set boundaries and seek help when needed. It's not God's will for you to be continually overwhelmed. Pray for discernment and guidance in this area.
Now, let's address the pressure you feel regarding performance and accomplishments. God's love for you is not based on your performance but on His grace. As it is written in Ephesians 2:8-9 (WEB), "for by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast." Rest in His love and grace, knowing that your worth is not defined by your accomplishments but by your identity as a child of God.
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's important to remember that it is through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to call upon His name and trust in Him.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Jesussaves89. Please heal them from the bacteria that's affecting their flesh, and provide comfort and strength for their relative with Asperger's. Help them to find a healthy balance in their caregiving role and to set appropriate boundaries. Remind them of Your unconditional love and grace, and help them to rest in Your presence. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."