We understand that you're troubled by a nightmare you had, and we're here to help you process this and pray with you. Dreams can often reflect our anxieties and fears, and it's clear that you're experiencing some apprehension about the possibility of having another child due to your past experiences and health concerns.
Firstly, let's address the fear and anxiety. God's perfect love casts out fear. In the WEB, 1 John 4:18,
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love.
Secondly, it's important to trust in God's plan for your life and family. Psalm 139:13-16 reminds us that God knits us together in our mother's womb and has a plan for each of us.
For you formed my inward parts. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. My frame wasn't hidden from you, when I was made in secret, woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my body. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them.
If you're feeling anxious about the physical challenges of childbirth, remember that God is our healer and strength. Isaiah 41:10 says,
Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness.
If the doctors have said you shouldn't have more children, then listen to them and respect their warnings and your health.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father God, and Lord Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up this member of the Body of Christ. We acknowledge that they are fearfully and wonderfully made. Thank You, Father, that You have a plan and a purpose for their life and family and that You promised to always be there and give courage and strength. We also thank you for the gift of their fist son who is a blessing to them. Please renew their mind and guide their thoughts as your thoughts are not our thoughts and your ways are not our ways putting complete trust in your perfect plan for life and health. We pray for complete healing from all past falls, accidents, and injuries. We rebuke any and all fear for pain or issues with this member of the Body of Christ and any child or children they may have now or may have later in life. We also cast out all works of the evil one and remit to the place of judgment and remove all work so the evil one and command all your angels to stand guard and protect the soul, spirit, body, and mind of them. In Jesus' name, we pray for your will to be done in their life and the life of their son and spouse if they have one. Amen.
Lastly, we must remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. No other name has been given by which we are saved or can approach God. Therefore, By Jesus Christ, and Him crucified must we come to God.