Guidance on growing my family.

[Syloywood]

Going through a season of life right now. Just got my daughter to 17 months of breastfeeding. To find out I’m expecting again. We are already financially strapped and in some debt and I feel so guilty for what this pregnancy will do for my other three children. Will have to stop extra curricular’s because of money. One is starting high school and all kinds of expenses come with that for his sports in school and outside. My middle child is experiencing the middle child syndrome due to older brother being so busy in sports but he does play soccer and is now wanting to do football. My youngest is in daycare because we need both checks but I don’t know how I’m going to do it emotionally, mentally and financially with a 4th. I can’t pay for two daycares. Ugh

 

[Articles]

In all things, we must trust that God has a plan and a purpose. Let's remember that children are a blessing from the Lord. However we must also address a few concerns and end with a prayer.

Firstly, we must always be good stewards of our finances, as told in 1 Corinthians 4:2 WEB: "Moreover it is required in stewards that they be found faithful." We should not be taking on debt without a plan for how to manage it. Secondly, let's consider the emotional and mental strain you're feeling. God tells us not to be anxious but to trust in Him. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

We also need to address the spiritual health of your family. Make sure that you are not only seeking God's will and purpose financially but also spiritually. You mentioned all the activities your children are in but did not mention if you are raising your children in the Lord. An important scripture to read and follow is written by Moses in Deuteronomy 6:5-9 You shall love Yahweh your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might. These words, which I command you today, shall be on your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up. You shall bind them for a sign on your hand, and they shall be for symbols between your eyes. You shall write them on the door posts of your house, and on your gates.

Let us pray together. Father, we come before You, lifting up this family. We thank You for the blessing of children, and we ask for Your guidance. We have concerns for our finances and emotional well being.

We pray for provision and wisdom to manage our finances. We also pray for peace and patience to handle the emotional and mental challenges that come with raising a family and being a Christian parent.

Help us be the parents you called us to be and raise our children up in the fear and admonition of the Lord.

Finally, we pray for the salvation of each member of this family, that they may come to know You and believe in Jesus Christ, by whom we have access to You. It is in His name we pray. Amen.

Lastly, consider seeking financial counseling or advice from a Christian organization that can help you manage your debt and finances. Also, look into other ways you can generate income or reduce expenses. Trust that God will provide and guide you through this season and that He calls us to be anxious for nothing and to trust Him in all things.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's a lot to take in, isn't it? A new baby on the way, finances tight, and the emotional rollercoaster of it all. But remember, God sees you, He knows your heart, and He's got this. Let's focus on some practical steps we can take together, shall we?

First off, let's get real about our money. It's not easy, but we need to be honest with ourselves about where we're at and what we can do differently. Let's dig into our budgets, find those non-essentials we can cut back on, and maybe even look into some side hustles. We can do this, one step at a time, trusting that God will provide.

Now, let's talk about our kiddos. It's tough, isn't it? The middle one feeling left out, the eldest starting high school, and the little one needing daycare. Let's make sure we're carving out special time for each of them, showing them they're loved and valued. And let's not forget to involve them in our faith. Let's make our homes a place where God's love is evident, where we talk about Him, and where we live out our faith together.

And hey, it's okay to feel overwhelmed. It's okay to feel guilty. But remember, God doesn't want us to stay there. He wants us to cast our cares on Him because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). So let's pray, together. Let's pour out our hearts to Him, ask for wisdom, for provision, for peace. Let's ask Him to help us be the parents He's called us to be.

And finally, let's reach out. Let's find a trusted friend, a mentor, or a Christian counselor who can walk alongside us. We don't have to do this alone. We're in this together, sister. One prayer, one step at a time.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Syloywood]

Going through a season of life right now. Just got my daughter to 17 months of breastfeeding. To find out I’m expecting again. We are already financially strapped and in some debt and I feel so guilty for what this pregnancy will do for my other three children. Will have to stop extra curricular’s because of money. One is starting high school and all kinds of expenses come with that for his sports in school and outside. My middle child is experiencing the middle child syndrome due to older brother being so busy in sports but he does play soccer and is now wanting to do football. My youngest is in daycare because we need both checks but I don’t know how I’m going to do it emotionally, mentally and financially with a 4th. I can’t pay for two daycares. Ugh

I do want to state we are a family of faith and my boys do know God and little one does go to a Christian preschool and she does to know how to thank God or for her it’s Jesus.

 

[Dan T]

Papa, please grant this person Wisdom and Discernment, guide her into your abundant blessings and allow her to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you....in Jesus' name...amen!

 

[APJ]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

God Is In Control

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[I am She]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Astiyrath]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.