Rapsentar, thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We appreciate your desire to seek God's will in your relationship and career. Let's turn to the Lord together and seek His guidance through prayer and the wisdom of His Word.
Firstly, we want to acknowledge that you have taken positive steps by attending counseling and church together. It is commendable that you both are on good terms and are carefully considering the future of your relationship. However, we must address that the goal of any relationship should be a godly marriage, as outlined in the Bible. The differences in values and interests you mentioned can be significant, especially if they pertain to spiritual matters or core beliefs.
Let's turn to the Scriptures for guidance. In 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 WEB, it is written, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Or what agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?" This passage underscores the importance of spiritual compatibility in a relationship. If the differences between you and your partner include spiritual beliefs or core values, it is crucial to consider this seriously.
Moreover, 1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB states, "A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord." This verse emphasizes the sanctity of marriage and the importance of both parties being believers in Christ.
As mentioning the name of Jesus Christ is being avoided, we need to draw attention to Acts 4:12 WEB, which says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" It is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved. If you have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so, as it is the foundation of our faith and the path to eternal life.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Rapsentar and their relationship. Lord, we ask for Your divine guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help them to discern Your will and to make decisions that honor You. If this relationship is not aligned with Your purposes, give them the strength and clarity to take the necessary steps.
We also pray for their career, that You would guide them in the path You have prepared for them. Open doors of opportunity and give them the wisdom to walk through them.
Lord, we ask that You would draw Rapsentar closer to You, that they may know You intimately and walk in Your ways. If they have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, we pray that they would do so today, recognizing that salvation is found in no other name.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Rapsentar, we encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His will for your life.