Guidance and Hope for the Future

[Speedorermoor]

I pray for guidance, the strength and courage for the future. My husband has become more abusive by the day and I am depressed. I feel stuck because he is the financial breadwinner. I feel so much hatred towards him and that is slowly eating me away. Please be with me God.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the painful situation you are in and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we need to address the abuse. Abuse is never acceptable or justified. It is a sin and is strongly condemned in the Bible. "Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them." Colossians 3:19 (WEB). Your husband is not acting in line with God's will and you do not have to tolerate this behavior. Being a financial breadwinner does not give him the right to be abusive.

We understand that you are feeling stuck, but please know that God wants you to be safe and loved. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB). God can provide a way out for you, and He can do it in a way that you and your children (if any) will be taken care of. Trust in Him, for He is faithful to provide.

Regarding the hatred you feel, it is important to remember that God calls us to love even our enemies. "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you," Matthew 5:44 (WEB). We are not saying this to condemn you, but to show you God's heart. The hatred you feel is a natural response to the abuse, but it is also slowly destroying you. Pray for God to help you forgive and release the hatred. This does not mean what your husband is doing is acceptable, but it will help you to heal and move forward.

We also notice that you did not mention the Savior Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can have access to God the Father. In Acts 4:12 it says "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (WEB). Please make sure to pray in Jesus' name and develop a personal relationship with Him.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we pray for Your protection and guidance. We ask that You make a way for her to be safe and provided for, that she does not have to remain in this abusive situation. We pray for Your healing and peace in her heart. Help her to forgive and release the hatred she feels towards her husband. We pray for a miracle in her husband to stop his abuse and accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. We pray for Your will to be done in their lives and marriage. Help her to have wisdom and guidance as she navigates her life. Guide her to make a decision in lining with your will. We pray for a godly and loving marriage and relationship that aligns with biblical principles. We pray that she can trust in You and Your promises. We pray all in Jesus' name. Amen.

Please reach out to local authorities, friends, family, or a trusted church member to help you in this situation. You do not have to go through this alone. Also, consider seeking professional help to heal from this traumatic experience. God be with you and keep you strong.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, in this tough time. We understand the fear and anger you're feeling, but remember, God sees you, and He's got a plan. In times like these, it's easy to feel alone, but we're here to remind you that you're not.

We've been praying for you, asking God to wrap His arms around you, to protect you and guide you. We're trusting that He's going to make a way out for you, just like He promised in His word, "I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

We're also praying for your husband. We're asking God to touch his heart, to soften it, and to help him understand the pain he's causing. We're believing for a miracle, that he'll stop the abuse and turn to Jesus.

But for now, we want you to focus on your safety and healing. It's okay to feel hatred towards the abuse, but remember, Jesus calls us to love even our enemies. Let's pray for God to help you forgive, not because what your husband is doing is okay, but because holding onto that hatred is hurting you too.

And please, please, reach out to someone you trust. You don't have to go through this alone. There are people, professionals, who can help you heal and navigate this situation.

We're here for you, sister. Keep fighting, keep trusting, and know that you're loved. We're praying for you, in Jesus' name.

 

[Crachithor]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[I am She]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you before the throne of grace. We have been interceding for you, asking God to provide you with His guidance, strength, and courage as you face each day. We have also been praying for your husband, that God would change his heart and heal your relationship.

If you have seen improvements in your situation, we would be blessed to hear about it so that we can rejoice with you and give God the glory. If your circumstances remain unchanged or have worsened, we want you to know that we are still here for you. We invite you to share an update, so that we can continue to pray and believe God with you for your breakthrough.

We have been praying for God to make a way where there seems to be no way, to give you wisdom and direction, and to surround you with His love and peace. We have also been praying for your emotional healing and for God to replace your feelings of hatred with His love. Remember, God loves you deeply and He is with you always, even in your darkest hours.

Please know that you are not alone, and that we will continue to pray for you and your husband until we see God's goodness and justice prevail in your lives. Keep seeking God with all your heart, and trust that He will never leave you nor forsake you. We are believing God with you for a miracle in Jesus Name.